My wife told me she can tell when I am wearing any lingerie under my clothes, wether its just panties or slips or a combination.  I asked her how?  She told me its because I walk more like a woman  and even act more feminine when I do.  To be honest, I do not try to act anyway and I would not have guessed I walk like a woman because I do not want my wife to know I am wearing anything, because she is completely against it.  It seems then I unconsciously become more feminin in certain ways when I wear femine clothing.  Wonder if that is the case with anyone else?

Release your inner female, and you will pass with little other things

Kate D

I sortof go the other way.  I was able to dress yesterday for the whole day and am very aware of the relaxed and feminine movements etc I make.  I had to work last night and had to be extrememly conscious to walk and move like a guy again.

I have not noticed a change in my physical actions other than crossing my legs while sitting. There is a definite change in my mental attitude which may affect my walk, etc.

Hi Salina,

I have never noticed if I act more femme when I wear panties or other lingerie under my guy clothes but maybe I do. I enjoy being Jean but I too have a wife that is totally against my dressing, so I need to get a bigger closet lol. At least you know she knows and seems to be able to deal with it. Have a great day.

Hugs,

Jean

I'm not sure if I do act different but if I do it would be hard for anyone to notice a difference.  I'm always wearing panties at the very least.  I use to worry that someone might notice my bra straps through my clothes so my movements may have been stiff or strange looking...not the least bit feminine.  I've gotten to where I don't worry about it any more and feel comfortable and natural around people.  So I don't think I give off any weird vibes.  Anyway, I hope I do walk and act a little more fem since that's how I feel.

Brings back memories of when I thought I was a cross dresser ... and had a wife.

Robyn
11 years postop tomorrow

I find that when Im fully dressed my female side completely takes over. My thought process changes as do my mannerisms and movements. The change is natural for me its like a switch in my mind is flicked and Kimberly takes over. 

My femme attributes show through all the time, my hips move side to side, when I walk I have practiced to achieve this and my general mannerisms are girlie.

After 18 months of therapy,  I finally came out to my VA psychologist about my feminine side and my crossdressing.  She then said,  I wondered when you were going to talk about it.  Strange thing is that I must be acting feminine when In drab and not knowing it. 

Actors have long know that one is more inclined to express certain types of behavior when you are wearing the right clothes-- letting the costume do the acting, as they say. I've never noticed this about underwear, but I guess it could be so. I certainly find it much easier to act more feminine in a pretty dress or high heels, for sure. But then, I think, any G-lady does, too.

My wife told me that she can also tell when i'm wearing panties under my clothes, she said I also act more fem, and she noticed how more relaxed,and much less stressed I'm.
A couple week ago I came home from a rough day at work and I guess I was a little bitchie so she when up stair and brought down a pair of my butterfly panties and demanded I put them on (which was too hard to convince me !) and it calmed me right down !

Hi,

Robyn Long time no see hows ya going.

subcounously your more likely to act a bit different ,  you may not think you do    trust me you will.  as youv said your S O knows & more than likely a few more details as well.

For me  what is different is  i did not walk like a male . manly because i did not relate with them or act like them  fact is i never tryed to. i have my own  way of doing things & walking is no different tho one of my many women friends did tell me to lossen up a bit ,

i am inclined to step it out a bit. when im walking with our lab -dog- so more like a march.

the other point for me is im not a girle girl , im a woman with my own style . are we all the same . no  of cause not . so you have raised the point of are we that femm in all of what we do , just be carefull you think you can hide,   well others see things that you dont, & that for me happened some 46 years ago. & again 6 years ago. tho i was not trying to hide who i was /  am,

...noeleena...

Not that it is feminine attribute, but my wife says that when I'm fully crossdressed, my personality changes to being much happier and much more carefree. She says its as if a certain joy was radiating from me.

Huggles

Toni-Lynn

I cannot wait until I muster up the courage to tell my girlfriend
It'll be interesting to see if my behavior changes if I wear her clothes publicly, I've only done it in private. I'll be looking out for that thanks to this post

Quote from: Kimberley on June 06, 2011, 07:14:10 AM
I find that when Im fully dressed my female side completely takes over. My thought process changes as do my mannerisms and movements. The change is natural for me its like a switch in my mind is flicked and Kimberly takes over. 

I agree...I immediately shift into girl-mode when the lingerie is against my skin. Maintaining the correct posture is essential for me
My bra doesn't feel right if I slouch in typical guy fashion, I occasionally use a waist band so my lower back needs to stay curved inward.

Me too - one piece of girl clothing and my posture and walk change immediately. I don't do anything consciously - it just happens.