Ok

I'm going through a bit more than usual private Hell, and I let some of it slip into Susan's. Believe it or not coincidence is more common than conspiracy.

Anyhow, that will clear up or not.

I was in boy mode after dropping my wife back at her Nursing Home so went to do the groceries while I was out. Walking past a shop I saw a gorgeous scarf that would totally go with the outfit I'm wearing in my pic. I was wearing my shopping bag on my shoulder, track pants and top, ear rings, of course; but nothing overtly feminine. The shop assistant couldn't see me and I was just looking (it was a very small shop), suddenly from behind the counter a male voice said 'Yes young lady, how can I help you?' I unhooked the scarf and put it on the counter in front of him, he didn't bat an eyelid. 'That's a cute scarf, have you got an outfit for it to go with?' 'Yes, I bought a really cute outfit from Casual Image ( a woman's clothes shop a few doors down)' I replied. Paid and left.

I've either got a problem (or maybe not), or he needs glasses.

Maybe it is the confidence factor.

Cindy

You have succeed in releasing your inner femaleness "Grashopper," Passing will be a breeze from now on.

Perhaps the whole thing was a way of G-d showing you are not alone in the mist of some rough time

XXOO

Kate D

Quote from: CindyJames on June 04, 2011, 03:26:42 AM
I've either got a problem (or maybe not), or he needs glasses.

...or he needs appreciating as someone who knows how to behave properly .

Young lady. Cindy leads 2-0!

And as they say , if it is a choice between conspiracy and stuff-up, go with the stuff-up every time.

Karen.

Quote from: Padma on June 04, 2011, 04:58:04 AM
...or he needs appreciating as someone who knows how to behave properly .

This!!

Well...A lot of the subtle things that gives up someone's gender are from how the mind designates the body to do things, right?  Like, the voice, motions, etc. all being retrained with focus on revamping the mind, right?
Maybe your nature finally put itself on track with what it identifies as.
Congrats ^^

As for him being kind...TBH I kind of doubt it's just that...because Cindy was going boy-mode, wasn't she?

Quote from: CindyJames on June 04, 2011, 03:26:42 AM
I've either got a problem (or maybe not), or he needs glasses.

"Needs" glasses? Maybe he can see better without them. In the 1995 movie Dead Man, the accountant William Blake has his glasses stolen by his friend Nobody. It's only when he is free of the lenses society had put on him, that he can see to shoot straight.

Before I transitioned, people with limited eyesight, developmentally challenged individuals, young children, and the very old, saw my true gender better than "normal" people.

There's a lot to be said for aura, and the 'vibes' you give off.

As Gandhi said: "Be the change that you want to see in the world."

I think that was a gentleman who can recognize a real lady when she stands in front of him.
There was absolutely nothing wrong with his eyes Cindy.
a big kiss for my australian sister.

Annette

Well, you are quite the refined lady a Sis.    And if he couldn't see that, then I'd say he needs glasses 

Hugs

- Virginia

Young lady! That's a win! Mind you, being in 'boy mode' may only actually happen in your mind. I'm not even vaguely convincing - even at work when wearing a suit and tie...

Quote from: justmeinoz on June 04, 2011, 05:46:59 AM
And as they say , if it is a choice between conspiracy and stuff-up, go with the stuff-up every time.

Karen.

We Aussie's are smart, we know how hard it is to organise a good conspiracy - so we know it's either blind luck or a stuff up every time..

How are you going doll?

I'm feeling very good very happy and relaxed. Is there an Ed evening coming up? Do you keep up with Sarah? Do we want to go for dinner together?

I had a wonderful weekend,

  Got 'Young ladied' at a shop by a guy.  Got the  'my god that looks gorgeous on you' at another. Went for dinner last night at the Morphett Arms  and had a really nice evening. Very nice people. 

More and more being me. love it.

Hugs Hon

I do want to catch up and I now have a lot more free time

Cindy