Hi all - after many years of considering myself a 'kinda kinky hetro boy' for my sexual desires I think its time I re-assesed what and who I am. I'm Andrea, a 37 year old m to f from the UK.

Its only after reading so many experiences and stories (especially here at Susans place where you all seem so very open and honest) from people who consider themselves without doubt to be TG that gel with my own experiences and feelings that I can now say with certainty this is me too, so this is a hello and a step through the door for me.

I'm in a stable and very loving relationship with a girl, just about at our 11 year anniversary. Although we are incredibly close, this isn't a part of my life I feel I can share with her, at least not at the moment.

Though I do have some sexual feelings for men (or parts of them anyhow), its nothing like the deep and expansive feelings I have for girls, mirrored in the way I want my body to be able to feel. I don't really feel bad or ashamed about being a secret TG while being with my partner as I love her in all the right ways.

Anyhoo, thats me and glad to meet you all.

Andrea K

Hello and welcome.  Take some time to look around and see the support available here at Susans.

Sarah L.

Hi Andrea and welcome to Susan's Place.

You'll find that a lot of us have a lot in common with you, in respect to re-evaluating ourselves, and just finding out what is best. After a lot of denial, six years ago I gave in and just let things be and I am now happier with myself as I'm sure you will be. It's a long journey that we all take, but the end results are well worth it.

Gina

Andrea, what can i say, your words almost mirrored my own 1 week ago. The people here are a great help 2 me and can b for u. I hope your happy here and find the awnsers you need.

Hello Andrea and welcome indeed!

Thank you for your introduction.  You've come to the right place and I'm sure you will find many answers to your questions in our forums.  So please take a second to explore the site, review the site rules, and take advantage of our many resources such as the wiki, the chatroom and the reference library which contain plenty of valuable information for your reading pleasure.

We look forward to your future posts and participation!

tinkerbell

Hi Andrea,
Good to meet you. It too me over 50 years to figure out what I was.
I'm glad you found the site.
If your look for friends and or information about gender issues this is the place.
Please read the site rules if you haven't at:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html if you haven't already.
Then check out the Wiki, with ton of info on the gender topics. Oh and check out our chat and links section too. Have a great read.
Welcome to Susan's.

Jillieann