Omg, I flew to Virginia, to meet a guy.... (2 days there), the guy couldn't keep me there, so I essentially lost 350 dollars or so, and he shaved my hair (he wants to pay for my college, so I let him, and he still interested in me) He bought a couple of dinners for me... but ehh my hair. Now, embarass, I couldn't go home to my parents so I went back to my state, stayed with a guy I used to know, and then he told me he wasn't attracted to me anymore (must be the shaved hair because he used to be) so he dropped me off at the coffee shop. He took me to a fancy Italian restaurant, spent about 30 dollars on me. I found one guy online who was willing to pay for a motel room, and he did,  and he didn't expect anything and just left me there because he was concern about me being homeless. He spent 60 dollars on me, including dinner. Then my other guy took me in to live with him and I am now on my third day with him, he help me get back my driver license (which i lost on my trip)... and he bought 100 dollars worth of groceries, and some foods.

I have a New York guy sending me 50 dollars me... just because.

This week has been crazy........
at least Im not homeless.

I'm not sure I understand.

Let me correct.

I'm sure I don't understand.

So basically for some unknown reason you became homeless and tried to find people to pay so that you can stay somewhere? Well, uh, I'm not sure about the method,
but I... guess it's good that you have somewhere to stay?

In any case, try to make your posts clearer, because it looks like someone who would talk in a confused manner after running away from a murderer whilst out of breath.

Then perhaps I can undestrand if you need help and react appropriately. ^^'

My week was also pretty crazy.

Omg weird.

Quote from: A on June 25, 2011, 09:17:41 PM
I'm not sure I understand.

Let me correct.

I'm sure I don't understand.

So basically for some unknown reason you became homeless and tried to find people to pay so that you can stay somewhere? Well, uh, I'm not sure about the method,
but I... guess it's good that you have somewhere to stay?

In any case, try to make your posts clearer, because it looks like someone who would talk in a confused manner after running away from a murderer whilst out of breath.

Then perhaps I can undestrand if you need help and react appropriately. ^^'

I'm not looking for help, just making a thread about my crazy week. It's all good now.

The reason I went homeless was because the guy I went too shaved my head (I allowed it, huge mistake), and now I can't go home because I am way to embarass. I am now at a guy's place, that I just met, and everything is paid for. Ehh, it's so boring here, but it's better than being homeless.

I keep thinking that you should stop relying on people you have known for very little and entrust your life to them, but I guess it's good that you're not in the street.

GET A JOB !

1 Crazy Week!

Just one?

Quote from: Wild Flower on June 25, 2011, 03:50:21 PM
and he shaved my hair

pics or it didn't happen.

How long are you going to be able to survive on handouts? I doubt you will be able to grow your hair out again before you do find yourself homeless, so maybe you should bite the bullet and go home. Perhaps you can find a wig to avoid the shaved head look?

Go back home. Get a wig if you have to. Wear a scarf or a bandana.

For some reason I find the list of amounts of money that men have spent on you depressing.

I think that you have to do some more thinking before you do things.
You'll have to admit that the hair thing was not a good idea.

If it were me, I would get a good wig with haste.

I would go home, and tell my parents that the shaved head was an outward sign that you are starting from scratch and going to be responsible for yourself and not rely on others.  Either financially or for maintaining your self esteem.
If they want to help you out ,a loan from your parents which is to be paid back at an agreed rate is one thing, a handout is a different matter altogether.
Eventually, like all of us you will have to face the reality of transition solo, no one else can experience what you are going through.  We all have had to gain the internal strength to face the world and maintain our integrity in order to be who we should have been allowed to be all along.
S**t happens, use it to grow roses!
Karen.

Ah would try  to grow up
Cindy

I'm left reverting to one of my original thoughts on the poster that we are being trolled...nobody has THIS much drama in their life no matter HOW much of a player/con artist they might be...

WildFlower, If, and I repeat, If, these stories are true (not some made up fantasy life) I feel sorry for you.

But I suggest you rethink what your posting here.  Susan's is not a fantasy site, we are here to help when we can and your stories are sounding rather fantastic.

Quote from: V M on June 27, 2011, 01:58:49 AM
1 Crazy Week!

Just one?

This was just one... before I locked up myself to my computer thinking I seduced every man I meet....

But now I see reality, and it's even better.
The shaving the head part was the worst idea really, but then again I didn't transistion yet so it doesn't look that bad on a guy.

~Kate
I am looking for a job right now, at my boyfriend's place. I decided I will live with him, until my college is done (I have college for free), since he is going to pay rent/electricity/food. I'll just save whatever I can... then once it's over, I am going to put the rest into whatever is needed to be paid first and the rest into plastic surgery.

He is not giving me a fabolous life of riches, but it's better  than what I can find online for now if I want to do college at the same time.  I found some incredible guys, but I can't go to them right now, since I have to get college under me. But shockingly, I can make a guy fall in love with me in 1 day. I have two guys in love with me, the one in Virginia and my boyfriend I have right now. The one from Virginia is upset with me since I haven't talked to him much lol this week.

I really love this life, and this was the best week of my life.

Quote from: Renate on June 27, 2011, 04:46:06 AM
Go back home. Get a wig if you have to. Wear a scarf or a bandana.

For some reason I find the list of amounts of money that men have spent on you depressing.

I think that you have to do some more thinking before you do things.
You'll have to admit that the hair thing was not a good idea.

I'll make a list since I want to know too
First guy: McDonald $2, Asian Buffet $10 for me, $50 motel room= $62
Second Guy: Italian Restaurant, McDonald= $25
Third Guy: Motel Room so I won't be homeless $50, Coney Island $10= $60
Fourth Guy (and now boyfriend)= twice at restaurants $15, groceries $80, plus all he has given me....

around $250 now
that's not too depressing...

Quote from: Wild Flower on June 27, 2011, 12:00:43 PM
around $250 now
that's not too depressing...

actually is IS especially in light of the fact that it amounts to glorified whoring/panhandling...it puts you in the same category of other parasitic leeches out there who are simply looking for a walking bank account.

Quote from: Ann Onymous on June 27, 2011, 12:56:34 PM
actually is IS especially in light of the fact that it amounts to glorified whoring/panhandling...it puts you in the same category of other parasitic leeches out there who are simply looking for a walking bank account.

I suppose, I agree, I guess I am worse than them... since I use "true love" as my poison.

But I never asked for it, they gave it to me, and I offer to pay (I know they wouldn't accept it). I even turned down my boyfriend to pay for something (so he would think I was different).

You don't listen to us at all, but I'll say it again.

GET SOME FREAKING THERAPY.