I just need a hug.

Brought my wife home for a few hours. She was in so much pain she was crying.

I massaged her, used heat blocks, tried everything but her neck and shoulders were in agony.

Puts my problems into perspective.

Cindy

wish I could ease her pain and calm your mind.


Hugs

Wish there was something more concrete I could do too.  Big hugs Sis. Thinking of you both.

Karen.

Hi Cindy, many Hawaiian Hula Hugs dancin your way.
I wish also that I could help, I know that the part that hurts the most is seeing your loved one in pain and not being able to do much about it.  Please understand that your doing all you can do and there will be days like this, when you have a day like this come here and get your hugs and kisses and know that there are a lot of people and prayers for you
Hang in there, aloha nui loa.

Jennie

Dear Cindy

So sorry to hear the tough times you and your wife are going trough, I wish you will have better times.
You deserve better, but that's life, we can only take it as it comes, sadly.
Please accept my virtual hug and I hope one day I can give you a real one.

hugs and kisses
Annette

Thank you for telling us dear Cindy.

I am pretty sure that, even though she was so uncomfortable, your wife did appreciiate returning to her own environment, however breiefly.

I feel for you.  I find it so much easier to handle my own pain than it is to handle someone else's pain.

I'm thinking of you Cindy.many Hugs,Rachael.   

Virtual hug from me too. My other half was in pain last night with her RA and it kills me to see her like that. I feel for you.

More virtual HUGS!

Kate D

Big hug to you sis. Feeling helpless is a terrible feeling.   

I'm so sorry Cindy. You're in my thoughts and prayers. If i were there I would hold you for as long as you needed.
Hugs
Beth

Thank you dear people.

I was sad and hurting and my friends came through.

Thank you.

For some reason I am popular? When I cry the tissues are thrust forwards, And I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

You keep me alive.
But

Lets forget Cindy James.

Let's remember and help the other people both male, female and androgyne that cry for a hug. They are just names, but they are beautiful people who cry in the night. They do not have my rep. But they deserve every second of care and support.
No they deserve more. I am a very strong person. I weep and I cry (thank you HRT ) But I am a very person in control, and I have learned so much. And I learn quickly. And I adapt.

I had a few posts that cried and said they had 20 odd viewings and no hugs. Why would we do that? This is a support site. All you need to do is send a hug. No big message. If you cannot spell send an emoticon.. Send both, I can't give a rats arse if you cannot spell, can you communicate?

I love and enjoy hugs, lets make sure we hug the ones in need as well
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Love does not have a language. Ah but it does.


Cindy

Honey, one more hug (big'on) for the road.

Yeah, it seems odd that some folks look in on these situations and move on without further ado.

Maybe some are all out of tears? --- it does happen and we will forgive them also :-)

Axelle

Hugs

Hey Cindy, hugs to you. Sorry they didn't come sooner. I haven't been on here as often lately.