But, Maud, as a girl..

Prettiness.

I must confess; I'm a reader. Not that I consciously look at everyone to find out who and what they are, but I'm having panic-problems, so I look at everyone independently anyway.
Thing is: When stumbling upon someone who had a sex change, I... Well, am intrigued*, want to talk, but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, so I usually shyly smile and get out. I mean; I allways make eyecontact, so these people know I've 'seen,' but.. Well, I don't want to hurt anyone.
So if any of you got a weird stare from a shy long, red haired young man in the Netherlands: I'm sorry!
*And a bit jealous. But hey; having me made female doesn't change anything for me, so that doesn't work.