Just had something of a reminder that not ALL girls are sweetness, hey!

In fact it makes me think, I'm quite fine to have some upper body strength left to defend myself AGAINST females, aggro and road raging, hello! Some wakeup-call for me...

Luckily enough I still think to be holding my own against some such aggro, assault inclined "femininity".

Maybe the interesting thing here, they surely think I'm female and not trans-woman.
Also they would not very likely act like that toward any male. Just a thought.

Have you any of this sort of thing happening to you?

I am a girly girl --- but don't go wake up my inner bitch. I'm not inclined to get walked all over by some fat stomached bitchy Valkyrie that feels ready to flatten me, eish!

Axelle

I thought drivers in SA didn't show road rage in case they got shot!

There has been an increase in aggressive behaviour by young women here, but it seems to be directed at women of a similar age.  Too many of them seem to be wearing their beer goggles when they go out.

Karen.

Who told you that all girls are sweet anyway?
The best friends I had at school were girls... and so were the worst enemies

Were you attacked? What happened?

No, I was not attacked physically but verbally.
It was a reminder not all chicks are honeys (like me at my best, heehee)

The point: IF she would have become physical - I sure did feel good having left some upper body strength to defend myself and not meekly doing a girly duck and dive.

Some females really can get quite aggro (PMS?).
Lucky enough they in the minority! So far at least.

Axelle

Quote from: Axélle on August 04, 2011, 05:32:36 AM
Maybe the interesting thing here, they surely think I'm female and not trans-woman.
Also they would not very likely act like that toward any male. Just a thought.

Cannot speak to your country, but I have seen MANY women who would not think twice about starting the same fight with a man as they would a woman. 

QuoteSome females really can get quite aggro (PMS?).

Quite frankly, I found that to be a rather sexist implication.  Aggression in women does NOT have to be linked in any manner to a condition, whether PMS or any other medically-recognized issue.  Just as there are men who have short fuses, so to are there women who do not always maintain their temperment...it is just part of nature.   

One of the fastest rising statistics is the rise of violent crime among younger women. 

Aggressive girls are the majority here.

I know plenty of very aggressive females. I think they should all join roller derby or something to get that anger out.

I am not sweetness. And a lot of girls I know aren't either. >.<

Quote from: Ann Onymous on August 04, 2011, 09:30:27 AM
Cannot speak to your country, but I have seen MANY women who would not think twice about starting the same fight with a man as they would a woman. 

And frankly I would be one of them.

Don't get me mad.  You would not like me to get made.

My therapist told me she once refused to write a hormone letter for an FtM until he got his aggression under control, because the last thing he needed was to throw testosterone onto that raging fire.

OK, consensus I'm reading --- get a life, don't be sexist about PMS (really?!) and get used to this stuff.

Living in SA does seem to make a difference though.
I hardly, if ever, got accosted by any female when in boy-guise.
But I sure heard about them accosting each other.
Having moved over --- it's more learning yet.
No more Victorian sentiments please, roll with the punches?
Gosh, I am old fashioned, aren't I :-)

Axelle

Quote from: Axélle on August 04, 2011, 10:54:55 AM
Gosh, I am old fashioned, aren't I :-)

Don't be too hard on yourself, hon.   One of the beautiful things about life is its diversity and the sheer breadth of human experience.  If we rush to be offended by someone's comment, we lose the opportunity to learn the life story behind that opinion.  I'll bet there are precious few people here who can claim to have grown up in post war Germany, and the rest of us have absolutely no idea what that was like.  It's fascinating to hear your opinion and your experiences, so you shouldn't discount that!

And you know what else?  It's beautiful that you have an open mind that can hear, accept, and, where applicable, adapt to the viewpoints of others.  So many people grow up rigid in their thinking and never learn how to do that.  You're a jewel!

Hey Axelle.  Hope you don't mind a guy chiming in here.  You are awesome.  Stay your sweet self and screw the bitches!  Don't lower yourself to their expectations.  You are a strong woman....they are probably jealous. 

Thanks dude, thanks Zoë

LOL, and a big hug if it's OK, for both?

Mwah, (blow kiss, please let me, can't help it...)
Axelle

PS: Such a nice man! :-) Such a nice girl :-) made my day.
Wish I could give yous a real hug, in place of a "virtual"/"digital" one... eh.

Hi Axelle.  Thanks for the hug!  I needed that. 

Ah, such a good man!

I like, um :-)
Axelle

PS: Meanwhile forgot all about the bitch-competition, nice talking

Quote from: Zoë Natasha on August 04, 2011, 10:52:25 AM
My therapist told me she once refused to write a hormone letter for an FtM until he got his aggression under control, because the last thing he needed was to throw testosterone onto that raging fire.

Testosterone would most likely make him calmer.

Quote from: ravij on August 04, 2011, 03:16:33 PM
Testosterone would most likely make him calmer.

It seems a little unethical to me to withhold treatment like that. We don't castrate all the cis-males with aggression and naturally high testosterone levels, and withholding testosterone is essentially doing that - castrating an unwilling male because of his behavior.