I havent been on for awhile as my wife found some of my clothing and well...as usuall, things got a bit dicey.  As I have said, my wife detests my crossdressing, she feels Cds are closet gays, at least thats how she sees me .  so, In order to appease her (cause I do love her) I quite(for awhile, just over 2 months) but now, I am back with it.  No!  she dosent know and I am going to keep it that way.   No matter how I try and for what reason(s), I can't seem to quit.  I even..ugh!  purged.   Today, I went out and bought me a full slip and a camisol for wearing under my outer clothes.  Boy, did it feel great!  I , for a few hours, felt relaxed, comfortable and feminin, a feeling I enjoy.   Never again will I purge and its highly and very unlikely I will will ever stop Cding.  Its in my nature as it were.  Love my wife but I enjoy wearing feminin things very much as well.   A side note here.
       I have noticed that society in general is ok with homosexuality and in some states, even gay marriages.  Given that, why can't society accept the transgendered, ie: crossdressers and transexuals with equall respect.  I guess  its to much for society to handle.

Just a thought.

What is your wife's attitude to gay?

If she is generally OK with it, can you just tell her you're gay, but want her personally and have no intention of ever cheating on her, with anyone. In other words, you would never use it as an excuse to cheat. Since you would never do such a thing.

I'm just wondering if it's being faithful that is concerning your wife. If she can be reassured about that bit, then she might want to see your CD as an expression.

Sometimes, when people are intransigent in that way, a bit of subtle negotiation can bring their thinking to a point where you are both more comfortable.

Hi Salina,

I can understand where you are coming from and my wife feels the same as your wife does. She also found some of my panties once and blew her stack. I have purged more than once and will never again purge. I have learned that once a crossdresser always a crossdresser. I love my fem side and even though I have to hide it from her enjoy the feeling of wearinf feminine lingerie    So, good luck in your dressing.

Hugs,

Jean