I ended up catergorising my pre-op orgasms. There were the decidedly male ones which were extremely Meh...same as always really, then there were combi orgasms which I thought were quite intense until i experienced a full blown female orgasm which left my eyes rolled back in the head, pelvic floor muscles spasming and me completely blissed out for at least 20 minutes (it didn't last that long...but that's how long I was in a very euphoric state for).

lol how about the ones where you arch your back and scream in such a high pitch you sound like you're wheezing and then wake up 30 minutes later!

Sounds all about right to me.
Only thing when happens what, is pretty much up to chance, or?

Axelle

I've only had one so far

Well it caught me completely by surprise, but there had been a couple of hours of very slow passionate build up so it makes sense.

just curious seeming i only ever used my penis to pee and store sperm (i think i used it wrong because no pleasure only extreme pain and needing of a ice pack) no i don't intended to use it to post op anyone know if i will feel pleasure post of or  my vagina just gonna be there for my partner and my person happiness

Since starting HRT, my orgasms have vanished completely...   They weren't exactly earth-shattering to begin with, but now they're pretty much nonexistent.

Quote from: Zoë Natasha on August 17, 2011, 05:43:09 PM
Since starting HRT, my orgasms have vanished completely...   They weren't exactly earth-shattering to begin with, but now they're pretty much nonexistent.

   Yeah me too, no more morning erections YAY!!  I don't mess around with my male junk that much but not long ago i actually did have a very intense orgasm, it felt more like a whole body sensation and i LOVED it. 

yeah thats def awesome when the erections disappear!

Quote from: Annah on August 17, 2011, 09:54:48 PM
yeah thats def awesome when the erections disappear!

Absolutely!!   

I told my therapist I control it (my sex drive), it doesn't control me.

Erections going away sure was nice, but orgasms going away isn't so nice... they're so meh that I just can't be bothered.  Not to mention I'm really hating my body these days.

On one hand its harder to have an orgasm, so it better be worth it, but at the same time it makes it more meaningful?

When I was a teen, I was able to have some pretty intense male orgasms, but they declined rapidly over time and have nearly disappeared entirely since I became aware of my GID/GD.  I'm certain it is largely psychological; I have a fair bit of body-hate going on. The problem being that when I become aware of my physical male arousal, the dysphoria kicks in and things shrivel again; usually destroying the mood. I'll be sooo glad to fix that situation.

As for female orgasm, I think I've had some little ones recently. They were an all-over body sensation as others have described in this thread. Kind of a pulsing warm fuzzy body blush, but somehow more exciting and yet more relaxing at the same time. Kinda buzzy in the head, too. Hard to describe. I'm not really sure how the lower anatomy responds because when it happens, I don't have the presence of mind to actually look down there. They are most likely to occur when I am feeling intensely feminine and after considerable foreplay. Definitely different from the old genital-focused nearly-on-demand experiences of my teen years. If HRT will bring these new sensations out and even intensify them then...well...yay for me and my Sweety!   

Maybe a clue...
the "female" version, in my case, goes with a flaccid member, the "male" version with a best in situation (HRT) demi-errection. YMMV

If in a 'hurry" male version is quicker --- only 5 -15 min. If at leasure to spend plenty of time 1hr? --- female-version is one nice alternative :-)

Lastly ALL will SO much depend on being -in the mood- !

Axelle

Quote from: Zoë Natasha on August 17, 2011, 10:10:51 PM
Erections going away sure was nice, but orgasms going away isn't so nice... they're so meh that I just can't be bothered.  Not to mention I'm really hating my body these days.

Does your doc know about the orgasm issue? I knew some girls who could not orgasm and their doc gave them progesterone. It helped out some girls in this arena. I dont know if your doc would prescribe you progesterone but its worth a shot!

OMG  I just experienced an organism with out even masturbating the old way! (Cis-male way) And it was earth shattering and the climax lasted about 1 full minute with an intense built up for about 5 solid minutes which just on its own was better then the old way I would orgasm from the old way I used masturbate. 

All I did was rub the head exactly the way I would caress a clit. I wasn't even erect or anything and my body convulced like a cis-woman and I even outbursted a sigh lol. It was a total body orgasm.  It's also been a probably 7 days since I even thought of touching myself.  The amount of time in between I'm sure also had something to do with it. But , it wasn't like the cis male orgasms I've gotten my whole life. This was different. This was also over 40 minutes ago and my whole body is still tingling.

Btw, I'm mtf pre HRT and pre op, only 10 days out of the closet.

I'm kinda jealous, I only started to get different orgasms a month into HRT and usually need to start up the old way to get going. (once I am going however I message the head)

Now a days I can orgasm for like 10 minutes straight, maybe even longer if the conditions are right. I still think there are remnants of a male orgasm in there, but I don't care, it feels fantastic.

Speaking from complete ignorance... because I haven't started HRT yet, but I would think that the novelty has a lot to do with it. When it comes to drug highs, organisms, sky diving, or any emotionally, sensually intense experience, the first time is always the most intense, and you can never achieve that intensity again. The thrill always declines with acquaintance.

They used to believe that infants were colour blind, but a test was devised that disproved this relying on this principle. What they call "sensory boredom", or the idea that with continued, or frequent exposure to stimuli, they become all "meh", so when showing an infant a colour for awhile until they're bored, and then show them a new colour, that if they were colour blind ought to just be the same old gray, renews their interest.

I guess I can attest to that, the first time the different orgasm hit me is blew me off my feet.

I still can get it around that level, but never the same. *shrug*

When I switched to IM my libido came back.

On pills I could but just didn't. On IM I want to.

As far as orgasm, pills resulted in an amazing O. On IM the O is unbelievable. I learned something on this thread and may try it, rubbing the head while at climax. It is so sensitive now I just avoided it.

When I started hrt I found I couldn't achieve O, it seemed to be so different from what I'd lived with that as I got close to the brink my body & mind ran away to hide.
I eventually got past this hurdle & the first time I had an O on hrt I was left wrapped in fluffy pink clouds & my body spent the next five minutes twitching uncontrollably, I kid you not when I say that my muscles refused to do my bidding,
They are definitely better if not experienced too frequently, my body seems to prefer a few weeks to recover & prepare for the next one :-)