Hey, sorry to hear about the hard time first of all :/; ain't that the way though, anything medically related usually at least semi-sucks

. I don't know how much this will help cause I don't know where you are in NY or how far you're willing to travel, but in NJ there's a group called the Institute for Personal Growth and they have an office in Jersey City (which, if you don't know) is very close to NYC. If you're willing to travel that far they have super awesome therapists (or at least mine is) and will help you go through the process, though I'm not sure what they're exact policy is on minors cause I'm not one

. I don't know of any endocrinologists. Sorry I couldn't be of more help, but if you can/are willing to travel that far I would def check out IPG and give them a call.