I consider myself pretty average in that department and even when I was a teenager I was able to do other things to take my mind off it. However, when I was given T things were not right ... it wasn't just a simple matter of being horny and jerking off was not satisfying it. It was like a more serious need that only actual sex was going to satisfy.

That and a few other things made me stop taking it.

Quote from: Mr.Rainey on August 26, 2011, 03:29:22 PM
I'm already needing it 2-3 times a day and I have never taken T. Lock up the ladies when I start.

Same for me. Oh geez.

And here's the real kicker, women can sense desperation at a thousand feet, in order to get laid you have to be getting laid - we always called it' the 'well laid look' - no girl wants to be chosen knowing that she could have been anyone else.

Quote from: MaxAloysius on August 26, 2011, 09:56:23 AM
Lol, I was trying to be tactful by saying 'the usual methods for dealing with this' instead of 'masturbating so hard my brain explodes' but believe me, masturbation is not helping no matter how many hundreds of times I do it. I have serious friction burn and there's still no end in sight. T.T

I am not even on T or anything and I know how you feel... For I have the brain of a homosexual man stuck in this female body.. and I recently moved in an attractive homosexual man, who constantly teases me... and he knows he is(he had told me he wants to lose his virginity to me.. but it has yet to happen). I have to cross my legs and rock most of the day...when he bends over in front of me, talks about how he has no underwear on, or just says "im horny!" all day... the only relief I can get is to make him go elsewhere for the day. lol... I don't typically enjoy masturbating (because oops I got the wrong thing there and its like... grrr) So the best I can do is preoccupy myself with games and headphones and cross my legs and rock my thighs/legs to give temp relief. Masturbating makes it absolutely worse, since the fantasies that run through my mind are extremely graphic and intense, the thoughts required to get off are even more so.. so I am thinking harder of it, and therefore making it worse.. since the thoughts that run through my mind are impossible to achieve with my current body. It does suck... i can only say, it should get better.......

I've been on T a year, and while I wouldn't say my libido is less than it was you just learn to deal, like working out and wearing yourself out. I'm just kind of used to it now, and it's a lot harder to remember how I was before. -shrugs- Not much help sorry .

I'm not on T yet, but I'm definitely one of those stereotypical guys who has sex on the brain throughout the day. I am actually a bit scared of going on T because I'm already horny as hell most days without it, and I only get to see my bf once a week. I know sex once a week is better than nothing, but still...nyargh.

I find 3 things to be helpful: intense exercise, eating healthy, and writing/painting pornography.

The exercise tires me out and gets me that runner's high that is almost like an afterglow AND it makes me feel good about myself and like someday I could conceivably be muscular and sexy. It's hard to get going at first, but I've been working out for a year now and the difference in my strength, endurance, flexibility, appearance, and self-confidence has been huge (65 lbs down, 20 to go!). I bind with sports bras, so I can breathe when I exercise. If it makes me look like a girl I really don't give a crap. I know who I am, and that's what matters. The more weight I lose, the more perplexed glances I get from men and women alike.

Eating healthy, I've found, helps me feel less stressed out all the time. I don't have blood sugar highs and lows, so my mood is more even throughout the day. There's a lot less of the pent-up itchy energy now than when I had a crappy diet.

Writing and painting porn is my other coping mechanism. I enjoy pornography with science fiction/fantasy and BDSM themes, so I get to make stuff that is exactly tailored to what I like. I let myself lie down in bed, have a really intense, trance-state daydream, and then I put it down on paper in one form or another. The intensity of the creative process detaches me from my body, so I am caught up in the trance rather than in frustrated hornyness. It might not work for everyone, but it works for me.

If you need to focus on something else, but you have a raging hard-on, try thinking of really disgusting/unappetizing things. Dirty bathrooms, moldy food, anything that is so-not-sexy. Really flesh out the image in your mind with sight/scent/feel/sound/taste as applicable. You might know this trick already, but if you don't, it's a lifesaver.

God I hate feeling horny as it is. I can't imagine what T is going to do! Hopefully I can put that drive and energy into exercise instead, when the time comes.

I took antidepressants awhile back, they took away all my hornyness which was pretty much the only thing they did do. Cuz antidepressants don't take boobs away and make you grow a penis, incidentally.

This is why god made hookers you know.

Quote from: Bahzi on August 26, 2011, 04:03:21 PMIf I had time I'd masturbate 3-5 times a day.

That sounds like me when I was a teenager.  It was common to masturbate at least three times a day.  I spent a lot of my time in sexual fantasies.  Of course, I was always female in the fantasy.  That's what makes it a fantasy 

QuoteLately though I've been working 45-50 hour weeks at my physically demanding job and then coming home and doing P90X, so I have no energy left to jerk off.  That's about the only thing I can recommend for it, wearing yourself out until your body is more concerned about sleep than sex.

That's what my friend does.  He has insane workout and conditioning routines.

Quote from: tekla on August 28, 2011, 10:14:29 PM
This is why god made hookers you know.

xD You're amazing.

Ya know, I think Wolfsnake's suggestion of writing and drawing porn is a pretty good one. Yeah, maybe not for everyone but I've been caught up doing it now and then and man, it's a great way to release those fantasies without rubbing your dick raw. And it's free and easily accessible later on.

It's a business doing pleasure with you.

Hahaha.  I am sorry but going through this before and not by choice in many ways just makes me smirk a lil hardcore.  Sadly as peeps have said this is perfectly normal a male going through puberty.  You just have to learn to get used it and also helps to find what truly sets you off sexually.  I mean that one thing that just gives you blue balls more or less period by seeing it and use a method along those lines to sedate it.  It also helps to drag out your masturbation so the orgasm is better at the end.  That also tends to help out...  The wham bam thank you ma'am method will always leave you wanting more almost asap.

oh ! right wait just remembered Max i get the issues your having but remember the deeper meaning behind this human survival just remember that change is natural and mean your a gr8 sample of a gr8 man 

I wish I was on T. I don't have any desire for sex.

Before I started T, I had almost no sex drive. I liked it because I could focus more on important things. Even still, I was worried that it was a symptom of something else. But now that I'm on T I'm experiencing as much sexual interest as I had when I was a teenager (which was a lot). It's weird though, because I don't really want to have sex. I would prefer masturbation. It's because I still don't have much of a male body yet, so I don't really want anyone seeing it. It's strange. I've only been on T for coming up to two months. The sex drive increase happened suddenly a couple weeks ago, which was also odd. Hopefully I can get used to this again.