So I go out a lot and while I love to dance, I usually am kinda paranoid about getting too up close and personal with anyone because I feel like someone is going to grind on me and realize that I have a lack of package. How do you guys deal with it? Is a lack of package even noticeable when grinding? (Personally, I never noticed a difference but then again, I haven't grinded with many guys.) Would packing help or is it just impossible to do that sort of thing while stealth?

I don't mind dancing by myself but it's very frustrating when someone is trying to make a move on me and I want to flirt back but am too paranoid to do anything but awkwardly try to pretend that I'm oblivious.

You can get a cheap packer online if you don't already have one. I had a coworker brush against me at the register last night (and I happen to have the hots for her, it was pretty horrible) and her ass rubbed up right against my packer... No idea if she noticed by I sure did. Either way, if you're going to be in a situation where you're likely to be grabbed or rubbed against, a packer's not a bad idea. I have no idea if people actually notice that kind of thing. I grinded with a guy once (yeah, only once... I don't dance and I'm not really into guys.) and I could have sworn he had nothing there even though a couple friends have told me all about his goods... -_-'

It's up to you. If you don't have a packer, a couple of rolled up socks in tight briefs should be fine. A small bulge might add confidence too. Not too big though xD

If a guy were to get excited and hard a girl would feel it, but if he stayed soft she wouldn't.  So how do want to be when you are dancing with a girl?