Since I've been going to FTM sites and following this forum I've found that I am becoming increasingly attracted to other FTMs. Before, I would date girls (any kind, stereotype, blah blah). But, now I see a girl that's been on T for a while and I am instantly attracted. Has this happened with anyone else?

Not me. I'm attracted to bioguys and only bioguys. I would be okay with dating another FtM since he would be a guy, but there would be no sex or intimate touching whatsoever, so it would never be a long-term, serious relationship(serious in this case meaning sexual).

Edit: I do think that because of my anatomical difficulties, I would have to end up with a bisexual cis-male.

I can relate to this. I'm MTF and I'm attracted to other MTFs as well as ciswomen.

Quote from: Preston on September 04, 2011, 12:27:11 AMBut, now I see a girl that's been on T for a while and I am instantly attracted.

If he's on enough T to masculinize him, he probably isn't a girl.

No, I don't find FTMs particularly attractive just because they are FTMs.

Are you interested in androgynes, perhaps? I'm not sure what you mean by "a while," but a lot of guys who have been on T for a few months are still fairly androgynous-looking.

I know a guy who only into girls or ftm, and his ex boyfriend where also a ftm.

I prefern ftm, have been attracted/in love with a couple, of ftm in my life and I think they are the best mix for me to be into.

I think it generally because ftm got alot of the good points of both sides.
Im into guys and girls, but for girls I prefern them alittle maculine and to males well yeah also normal maculine but not nessesarry macho.
most ftm got this maculine thing about them, and still they have kinda gently features who often makes people look really handsome.
also when I am bisexual I am most into the females lower part and most into the males upper body, wich some ftm tend to have.
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well this is for look but I think the biggest thing for me is actually the person,
I think its nice to have someone understanding you, and ftm pretty much always understands you in some point and what your going throght without putting up to many questions or ignorant felling wich can be a pretty big turn off.
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I've always thought of FtMs as being attractive,
For one, I do like androgenous looking men, which a lot of FtMs are - especially at first or even after several months of T. But I also like the fact that they can relate to me and I can relate to them. I'm freaked out about being intimate with a cis-man because they'll never understand my dysphoria - but another transguy would definitely know how I feel about my lady-parts.

Quote from: Arch on September 04, 2011, 01:16:13 AM
If he's on enough T to masculinize him, he probably isn't a girl.

this

I'm attracted to trans men and cis men.  If it were a perfect world where no one was transphobic, I'd be more into cis men for one night stands since I do like cis men's penises.  For a long term relationship, I'd prefer a trans man because we've been through a common experience, and I know that he must be a bad a** to have survived.  Realistically, cis gay men aren't usually interested in me for one night stands or relationships, and I haven't met another gay or bi trans man yet (not that I've really tried either- I'm still getting over a difficult break up,) so this is mostly hypothetical. 

edit: grammar

Quote from: Preston on September 04, 2011, 12:27:11 AM
Since I've been going to FTM sites and following this forum I've found that I am becoming increasingly attracted to other FTMs. Before, I would date girls (any kind, stereotype, blah blah). But, now I see a girl that's been on T for a while and I am instantly attracted. Has this happened with anyone else?

I don't get this.  Are you calling FTMs girls?  Because we most certainly are not girls. 

yep, I find myself mostly attracted to other ftms.

also because I am afraid of semen, and ftm's are men with no semen.. if that makes sence

I like guys.  In the beginning, I didn't think I could be with another FTM because, especially in the beginning of transition, they look too female.  they have female parts.  and even though so do I, I just couldn't be with female parts.
But then, the more I see FTM, on youtube or on the forum, the more I start to really see them as guys, and forget what kind of parts they have. 

And actually now, even though I'm still attracted to male parts, I think I would prefer to be in a relationship with another FTM.  because a FTM I could relate to and could relate to me.  I think it would work well.  as well as being attracted to one.

im mostly attracted to girls but i occasionally get crushes on ftms or guys, but mostly their personalities im not really physically attracted to ftms or guys. also i think i like ftms and the idea of dating an ftm because they know what im going through and they can relate.

I've been around a couple of really cute ones, I actually kinda want to date one, myself. A dude's a dude, some are hot 

(Probably didn't think you'd get a bunch of MTF's professing their love of FTM's, huh?)

Quote from: anibioman on September 04, 2011, 11:11:24 PM
im mostly attracted to girls but i occasionally get crushes on ftms or guys

FTMs are guys

Quote from: JohnAlex on September 04, 2011, 10:50:07 PM
they have female parts.  and even though so do I, I just couldn't be with female parts.

I'm a male.  My parts are male.  Not what one would think of as "typically male" but still male.

I have always been attracted to men only. I don't like female parts at all. But, a lot of FTM's are seriously cute, which makes me think it must take some aspect of the feminine to make a really good looking man.

OMG, I am soooo sorry that I said that. I'm brand new to this and I seriously just learned what FTM even meant. I didn't mean to offend anyone. If I did you can virtual punch me in the face because I would certainly be offended if someone else did it. 

Quote from: Andy8715 on September 04, 2011, 11:26:10 PM
I'm a male.  My parts are male.  Not what one would think of as "typically male" but still male.

This is something I've been thinking about a lot lately, and I may probably will redact my statement at some point as I refine my understanding, but I agree with you halfway.  First, I am definitely not a woman.  It p*sses me off when people think I'm a woman, which doesn't happen among my friends too often.  What does occur, is that they assume I relate to my body as it is pre T, pre op as a woman's body (you're gay! penis goes into hole, what's the big deal about straight vs gay men  )  Put simply, I don't experience my body as being congruent with my mind, and my mind wins out over my body.  That unfortunately doesn't completely negate the fact that I have a body that more closely resembles a female body than a male body.  In fact, if my body weren't connected to my mind/ spirit, whatever it would exactly resemble a woman's body.  Personally, the difference for me is that my brain doesn't react to my female body being treated like a female body like a cis woman reacts to her body being treated as a woman's body.  Ergo, sex is complicated.  And more to my point, while if anyone were to perceive my gender as anything other than male, I'd be p*ssed, I understand if they're not attracted to my body as it is now.  Despite the fact that I'm not connected to the female aspects of my body, they're there, other people see them, and I lack many male attributes that gay guys tend to find attractive.  No one can choose what attracts them sexually.  It seems like the statement "you are transphobic if you aren't attracted to me because my gender is male and you are a gay man" is just as ignorant as saying "you should only be attracted to 'x' gender because you are 'y' gender."  It just doesn't work that way; you don't get to choose what turns you on.  Now, if a gay man said he wasn't attracted to me because of my gender, and not my personal attributes or gender presentation or any other number of things that make or break attraction, but simply because he didn't see me as male, I'd think he was ignorant.  But, if he said "Unfortunately, I understand that you're a man, and I respect you as a man, but I'm only sexually attracted to cis men's penises, so it won't work out between us," I wouldn't fault him for that.  Yeah, sorry about the tirade.  It's just something that has been on my mind recently, so I sorta was working out my thoughts as I wrote this.   

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I'm gay and my boyfriend and I are both FtM.  I'm not attracted to him because he's FtM but because he's awesome and we have a lot in common (excluding trans stuff).  I'm never attracted to FtMs because they are FtM, just attracted to all kinds of guys. 

EmmaM; I actually heard a couple mtf who would like to date ftm^^
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Elijah; oh yeah also another reason why ftm is better, NO semen and NO risk on the annoying baby ways.
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I personally have found myself drawn to other FTMs on a regular basis. I'm not exactly where I want to be yet (gettin there!), but I have been told by many that despite my sexual orientation being gay, I am often read as straight. I was confused by this and asked why. All the FTMs I've spoken to have said that I come off as very masculine, almost a mans man type. So even though I'm short (only 5'2''), I'm read as this slightly intimidating straight man. Lol Couldn't be further from the truth! I have often wondered if being physical with another FTM would throw me off, but have found in my experience that my brain does not register anything about a fellow FTM as different from a regular male- besides the usual above average rate of attractiveness!

I am attracted to FtM, but if we take away the person, the reason for my attraction is mostly due to their success in transitioning, kinda I want what they have achieved already kind of attraction.

however FTM or MTF, crossdressers and anything else under the rainbow is not an issue for me, if I like a person I like a person regardless of their gender. thats my theory atleast, but so far I have not done well with straight men and I'm not sure I could ever be with one again