Long title... anyway,

"Could I get this thing that would make me feel a lot more comfortable? It's not expensive or anything, it's actually rather cheap."

And then she'd most likely ask, "What thing?" 

And I could just go, "Here, I'll show you." And then show her the website where you buy them.

And then hope she doesn't go, "what the ... ?" o__O

So yeah, what do you think? Does it sound like a good idea? And I want her to know that I have one, (and preferebly pay for it, hehe) because I'd most likely use it all the time. And then it would get awkward if she noticed that all of the sudden... I have a penis!

Is she prudy or anything? Because you might want to warn her before you open up the website xD

Just had a thread about this:

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,105297.0.html

Quote from: DevinJV on September 10, 2011, 10:35:04 PM
Is she prudy or anything? Because you might want to warn her before you open up the website xD

Not really, but she might get a bit shocked. I guess.

Maybe I should ask, "are you sure?" right before I open the website. Give her a clue that it might be something kind of ... unusual.

You know your mother best, but I would never ask my mother that let alone show her. Why not buy it yourself?

Yeah, if you can't buy it yourself and you're worried that she would actually be upset about it in anyway, then you could go with the sock method or the condom/hair gel method to give you a packer until you're able to buy your own?

I would suggest getting a bank account. If you're under 18 and over 16 then you'll need your parents, but I'm sure they wont suspect if you try and open a bank account. Then get a debit, and buy what you need without involving the parents.

Bio guys sure dont wanna show their moms their junk; we shouldnt have to either LOL

Quote from: stiltsk on September 11, 2011, 12:52:52 AM
Yeah, if you can't buy it yourself and you're worried that she would actually be upset about it in anyway, then you could go with the sock method or the condom/hair gel method to give you a packer until you're able to buy your own?

I would suggest getting a bank account. If you're under 18 and over 16 then you'll need your parents, but I'm sure they wont suspect if you try and open a bank account. Then get a debit, and buy what you need without involving the parents.

Bio guys sure dont wanna show their moms their junk; we shouldnt have to either LOL

Yeah, that's something that has been making me really pissed, my brothers didn't have to ask my mom for a dick! They just got them without any questions asked.
And I'm under 16, so I don't know if I'm legally allowed to. I can't wait until I turn 18.

Quote from: Sharky on September 10, 2011, 10:50:18 PM
You know your mother best, but I would never ask my mother that let alone show her. Why not buy it yourself?

I don't have any money. I guess I could save up, but that would take at least 2 months.

I don't know your age or circumstances (obviously) but if I were you I'd get it without my mom's permission. In fact, that's what I did.

Go to any grocery store and get a prepaid Mastercard or Visa, then use it to make your purchase online. You can get a packer for under $30 including shipping and tax if you want the cheapest model.

Put your legal name on the shipping address so your parents aren't legally allowed to open it, even if they receive it.

EDIT: Just read the thing about having no money...... well you have to weigh the pros/cons of saving up vs. telling your mom.

Some questions I have:

Are you out to your mom?

Is she supportive of your trans status and transition?

Have you always been able to be open and honest with her?

If the answer is yes, then go for it.  If my kid asked me, and I knew he was trans and wanting to  or starting to transition, I'd have no problem with it.  (I have 2 teenagers at home).

If on the other hand she is freaked out, or not supportive, or runs from anything sex related (ie wasn't comfortable explaining the birds and the bees) I'd say she probably wouldn't take it well.


Jay

Quote from: sneakersjay on September 11, 2011, 08:08:54 AM
Some questions I have:

Are you out to your mom?

Is she supportive of your trans status and transition?

Have you always been able to be open and honest with her?

If the answer is yes, then go for it.  If my kid asked me, and I knew he was trans and wanting to  or starting to transition, I'd have no problem with it.  (I have 2 teenagers at home).

If on the other hand she is freaked out, or not supportive, or runs from anything sex related (ie wasn't comfortable explaining the birds and the bees) I'd say she probably wouldn't take it well.


Jay

I am out to my mom and she is supportive. And I can talk to her. So I think I'm gonna do it.

Feels like I'm coming out, AGAIN. DX Now I just gotta wait for the right moment...