Hey so im staying in the motel for 500 a month... everything is going ok... um i guess im upset my ex who i was talking to said he wanted to be friends. i havent heard from him in a week. so i msgd him saying hope you are doing ok. he moved back in with his parents who are a bit controlling they grounded him and are controlling his money hes 23 btw.... idk if they deleted his facebook or just deleted me or if he did.... should i even bother with him idk i guess im just so attatched to him he was also my best friend and its hard not seeing him... what should i do?

What can it hurt to try once more to get in touch? Do it if you feel you must but be ready for the silence that might come after. At least then you will know one way or the other.

Randi

only way i was able to talk to him was facebook i guess its time i just leave him behind..... i know i broke it off with him since he likes guys and all....

Move on girl... plenty of other fish in the sea. If he's 23 and lives at home... he's a definite "not ever" in my book.

     Awe, it sounds like you really have feelings for this guy. Umm..all i can really say is listen to your heart girl. xoxo

Sounds like he may be one of those men who just flat out abandoned you. It's sickening that people do that, but it's also happened to me a couple of times. I'd just leave him alone for a while.

Though it is entirely possible that his family intervened and that they are trying to separate him from you. Either way, it's better to keep your distance; because if you keep trying to contact him or if you try to find him in person, you can look like a creepy stalker; and that's never good.