Hi . Cindy.
Okay i have some advange, & yet disadvange,
& i did things in a way that people would know what to expect , & im not advocating others do this , & yet i was given far more than if i had done nothing ,
I had many people do thing's for me ,
I was asked to do my story for two T V stations ,Papers & the net . nation wide. so many people knew with in hours my background who i was . am & all about what we were doing all on the line, my history. there for every one to read & see,
People did not have to understand every detail just knowing who i was what i had done & why was enough to be accepted . first as a person . & 2 nd as a woman tho intersexed. i have more friends over the last 4 years that i have ever had over 60 years of my life. & yes that includes quite a few men .
I went over to Thailand & met many neat people over 100. been to Austraila & met many i make friends pretty much were ever i go. & if i dont know people i soon become friends, i talk with strangers im a all out going woman with a attitude of , if i dont know you i; soon will , i talk i invite people in to my life kids Moms & Dads with kids at parks it does not matter where. most people love talking ,
i ask them about them selfs of cause they hear a bit about my self or they may know who i am from the media & come over to me .
Put your self in those peoples shoe;s what would you do. or like to do. its about being friendly,
the many groups im involved in number in the 1000's & then im infront of many more . Iv allso talked to many 100's of people .
So it's how you present your self its not the clothes tho that is a part of it its how you get on with people how you interact with them, to gain acceptance you join groups be a part of do things with them .
For my self im different & i expect people to ....look ... at me. i dont blend in nor do i try. my head wear in my pic shows that,
For those of you who wont to blend in then dress as most women do , nicly a bit of make up. a nice hair style & just be like other women .
Many young males in groups are wonting to show off no matter wether your a woman natal trans or other. by them selfs theres nothing to brag about, , women well us any way we just walk on by & give no heed ,
Many people who do notice a difference male's will sometimes comment to thier partners or friends iv had that . i just smile & carry on doing what ever.
It comes down to two things these males are insecure in them selfs not confident in who they are as people , growing up not really understanding them selfs & things going on in thier bodys .
& may be you. have you self confindence in your self are you showing off your lack of being strong enough to have the strength to be who you should be,
My disadvange is my facial looks every thing else is as a
woman.in that im to mascline ,& yet even that is not a big issue,
I have acceptance from many 1000;s of people because they have accepted because they wont to. you have to put your self out there. no use hideing it gets ya down,
...noeleena...