I would like all of you to meet our first baby Boogie as we call her.




She is the biggest part of my real life experience. I never thought for one second that  I would be a mother. You just could not have told me that 5 years ago cause I surely would have had a good laugh.

I love her so much and have her everyday as her other Mom works and I am the stay at home mother. This is great I wouldn't change that for anything!!! never!!!

Here is were I am confused. We are having another baby girl. She is due in June and I love her two but just cant get it out of my mind how Boogie is going to feel when she lays eyes on that new baby.

I swear you guys this is breaking my hart  my stomach is turning and I almost feel like I am getting ready to cheat on  Boogs at the same time I feel guilty I am not as happy about the next baby as I should be.


I guess it will work out it just seems the closer to June we get the more uptight about it I feel

Thanks!!!
Kristina

I'm trying to guess how old your first baby is.  I will guess around 3, possibly 4, but I don't have the context of height.  My 2 kids are about 4 years apart as well.  If you continue giving your first baby attention, there should not be any problems.  Also, try to get her involved with helping to raise the baby.  She'll enjoy something new as well as get the attention and love she needs and deserves.  It really sounds like you love her, so I am sure there is no way you'll not give them both attention.  Children just want to be assured you love them.

Melissa

thanks Melissa that sounds right on I think maybe after the first mo. she wont even remember that she used to be the only one.  Still the thought of seeing her little face realize there is another baby kills me.

I forgot to give you her age 20 mo. she is a big girl ha ha like her mom. She even has my red hair can you be leave the luck. People are always telling me what a wonderful baby I have how long ago did I have her


OK well now I'm tooting her horn better stop!!!!!!!


Kristina