I don't find it odd that you're going through what seems to be an Androgyn period of defining your gender.
Were does the line overlap or touch??
It's becoming somewhat obvious that peoples gender can float around in the grey area or even bounce back and forth. YMMV.
It's nice here, because of the enormous amount of differences between people here.
There are no expectations other than try to accept others as they feel they are.
That's a reason all in itself. Accept no expectations. Feels good, doesn't it?
You come here as a person without expectations. You and anyone else out there want to come here and hang around? Cool.
Just accept the fact that none of us are even close to being the same, other than to have that very quality.
Don't try to figure us out, just accept the fact that you can't. Neither can we. But, we do find commonalities.
That's what we do here. Cool.
The Rope Swing is always available and holds more than one person.

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