Ok..Lately I have been thinking about buying myself a soft packer, along with one of those harness things to hold it in place. I have my eye on the Mr. Right. It looks like it's a widely known one, so you guys probably know which one I'm talking about. But before I pay the money for the harness and Mr. Right, I thought I would ask these questions first

Are there any packers out there that can (safely and effectively) be used as a soft packer and a hard packer? I only found one and it said it can kind of bend out of shape, and the wire making it "stiff" can break through the packer and cause injury if you're using it for sex. But does anyone know of any dual use packers for hard and soft packing?

I'm sorry if these questions are dumb. I'm brand new to shopping for packers..so I don't really know what to look for. If there aren't any dual use ones out there then I'm probably gonna get the Mr. Right

But also I wanted to ask just in general how to go about shopping for packers. I once tried using the sock method but it didn't quite work. When I went out in public, I looked down and it looked like I was happy to see everyone..lol

If there aren't any dual use packers, I'm looking for a decent quality, realistic look and feeling soft packer. I have my eye on either the Mr. Right or Sailor Soft Pack. The Mr. Right is more expensive than the Sailor, so I'm thinking it's better quality. Although the price isn't always right (pun intended)

One more question..can soft packers be worn inside any kind of briefs or do they only fit into certain types of underwear? I'm gonna guess they don't work with boxers, but I was curious if they worked in any type of briefs

So..I'm just looking for anyone's opinion, experiences, or anything anyone wants to share. I'm kind of lost..lol

I can simply offer a suggestion since I have yet to find one myself and this is one I am personally considering. The Peecock. Just google it and the website will come up. It's piss, pack and play. As far as I've found, all the reviews are positive with the few here and there who just weren't compatible, which is possible with any product. Good luck.

Atm I'm wearing  Mr. Limp softpacker. I can have it in briefs without a harnass but I rather wear it with, though I still have to make one. Other option is to wear it in a sockpouch with I pin to the my undies.

Also something you have to have in mind when wearing your packer that it's weird for you to have a bulge in your pants. So any bulge may look/feel like a hard on to you when you look down. When it's in, look at it from the side. Best to look without pants, just your undies. I'm a small guy and the Mr. Limpy I've got (3,5") is slightly bigger than the 'average male size'. Meaning that for my height I feel rather well hung down there. But I've 'come to terms' with that haha and it looks and feels fine now.

I also second Wolf Man. You should look into the Peecock, it's a lot of money but I'll definately get my hands on one sooner or later. There's some Youtube vids with reviews on 'm as well so you can get a visual and sorts. Most guys I've heard about it can pee with it, I think right now I can think of two who've had real problems with it.

I looked at the Peecock. I don't think I would be happy with it because the appearance of it doesn't look right. To me it doesn't look realistic enough

The Mr. Right that I'm looking at looks great and looks like what would be best for me, but in the picture I've seen it looks like it almost has a "shine" to it, most likely from the material it's made out of. I don't think it's normally supposed to look like that, but is it normal for a packer to have that plastic shine to it?

I've never seen one up close in real life before, so I don't know

I'm not familiar to the Mr Right packer but I know that some packers might have a shine to them because of the material. Just like some packers (like my Mr Limpy) feel sticky so you should powder them with cornstarch after washing.

Though a quick glance at the ToolShedToys website tells me that the Mr Right is on the large size of a packer. I don't know how 'big' you feel down there and what kind of pants you wear?

I'm about five foot five in height, so I'd probably be about a medium size

Yeah..I'm hearing the Mr. Right is big, so I'm gonna start looking for something else

If I couldn't find a hard and soft packer..I'm gonna start looking for an STP dual soft packer. But mostly the most important thing to me is the way it feels and looks..so I might just get a soft packer for starters and maybe upgrade to an STP dual soft packer later on

I feel the Mr Right is less realistic looking than the peecock. I've touched a Mr Right before and it's just too firm. The plus side is that you can boil it to clean while others like...Mr Softy (?) can't. I don't think good vibrations is selling packers any more but I remember theirs being good.

I just prefer my packer from fleshlight in the extra small. It's soft, squishy, and inexpensive. I don't care about looks much for myself because I know nobody will see it.

Yea but the cheaper squishy packers are easy to clean as well even though they will turn in a pile of sticky stuff if you'd boil them haha.

Walter, a fair amound of the pack and pee's out there are made out of softpackers like Mr Limpy I was talking about. (there are many names for this same packer) You can always get your hands on this one (it's fairly inexpensive) and you can turn it into a stp yourself.

Quote from: Nathan90 on October 30, 2011, 01:03:34 PM
Yea but the cheaper squishy packers are easy to clean as well even though they will turn in a pile of sticky stuff if you'd boil them haha.

Walter, a fair amound of the pack and pee's out there are made out of softpackers like Mr Limpy I was talking about. (there are many names for this same packer) You can always get your hands on this one (it's fairly inexpensive) and you can turn it into a stp yourself.

False. The cheaper ones cannot be sanitized through boiling like the others. You can wash it with soap and water but bacteria can cling to it.

Yea and bacteria are everywhere. Warm water and soap might not be the same as boiling. Still, easy to clean. Good enough for me anyway.