I left the bar early because something happened to someone there. the police and amblanace showed up. As I was walking out of the parking lot a man asked me what happened. I told him that someone had a diabedic attack. He asked me if I had a boy friend I said, no. He started telling me what he wanted to do to me. I got scaried that he was going to try to pull some crap with me. He asked me to do something to him. I told him that I was not like that. I was close to a store trying to work my way from him. I thought he gave up because he started to walk away from me. I kept walking to the store until I thought he was gone.Then I headed to my house he had to be watching me because he was a block behind me calling my name. I never gave him my name. He did tell me that he went to the bar that I came out of. He kept calling my name and walking toward me. I got even more scaried not know what was going to happen. All I was thinking I got to get around the corner so I can run and hid. he was still coming. I made the corner and ran as fast as I could to get away from him. I made it up to the end of the block and hid in the shadow of night just as he rounded the corner still calling my name. I walked as fast as I could to the house looking back to make sure he was not there. This is the first time anyone tried to follow me home. I have been wondering how long he has been thinking about doing this. He had to be asking about me from others in the bar. He knew my name and that I am transsexual and that I walk home from the bar. I am wondering if he knows where I live, Did he follow me before but I did not know it?

Quote from: jainie marlena on October 31, 2011, 07:29:12 PM
I left the bar early because something happened to someone there. the police and amblanace showed up. As I was walking out of the parking lot a black man asked me what happened. I told him that someone had a diabedic attack. He asked me if I had a boy friend I said, no. He started telling me what he wanted to do to me. I got scaried that he was going to try to pull some crap with me. He asked me to do something to him. I told him that I was not like that. I was close to a store trying to work my way from him. I thought he gave up because he started to walk away from me. I kept walking to the store until I thought he was gone.Then I headed to my house he had to be watching me because he was a block behind me calling my name. I never gave him my name. He did tell me that he went to the bar that I came out of. He kept calling my name and walking toward me. I got even more scaried not know what was going to happen. All I was thinking I got to get around the corner so I can run and hid. he was still coming. I made the corner and ran as fast as I could to get away from him. I made it up to the end of the block and hid in the shadow of night just as he rounded the corner still calling my name. I walked as fast as I could to the house looking back to make sure he was not there. This is the first time anyone tried to follow me home. I have been wondering how long he has been thinking about doing this. He had to be asking about me from others in the bar. He knew my name and that I am transsexual and that I walk home from the bar. I am wondering if he knows where I live, Did he follow me before but I did not know it?

What does him being black have anything to do with it? Lol. It sounds like he was desperate for some booty. Becareful!

Incidents such as these (sadly) happen to trans people more than we report, I know, I was chased once too.It is imperative that you never lead him to your house. Be safe.

  RUN GIRL RUN!!  LOL

Carry a cell phone, mace and whistle. At a minimum.

Quote from: JenJen2011 on October 31, 2011, 07:32:20 PM
What does him being black have anything to do with it?

Well said. I second that.

Quote from: Michelle. on October 31, 2011, 08:04:39 PM
Carry a cell phone, mace and whistle. At a minimum.

Now this girl KNOWS what she's talking about. LOL.

It's a descriptive word. Used to identify her potential attacker. The police need more to go on than, "he lookE like a man".

That Kool Aide drinking lib biz is gonna get y'all killed someday.

Oh, thanks Jen.

Quote from: Michelle. on October 31, 2011, 08:09:09 PMThe police need more to go on than, "he lookE like a man".

Obviously, but we're not the police. I doubt anyone here will be trying to hunt the offender down.

You mean we shouldn't go vigilante on the pricks?

Quote from: jainie marlena on October 31, 2011, 07:29:12 PMHe knew my name and that I am transsexual and that I walk home from the bar. I am wondering if he knows where I live, Did he follow me before but I did not know it?

My gut feeling, from the last two threads you made.
This person knows someone involved and your being baited and or set up.

there all the crap on my part is cleaned up. Sorry for how I said it. Culture is a big thing and when you are on the internet in a forum people speak many ways from all over the world. I will stop discribing things with detail so as not offend anyone.

The last thing we need here is more crap.

Quote from: Rukia87xo on October 31, 2011, 08:02:42 PM

  RUN GIRL RUN!!  LOL

That is why I always wear sneakers rather than heels at any unfamiliar place, especailly in the US suburban areas. It is lucky that I can wear high-heel boots at any place in my country.

Barbie~~

Quote from: jainie marlena on October 31, 2011, 07:29:12 PM
I am wondering if he knows where I live, Did he follow me before but I did not know it?

That fear could be right. You need to live at a safe place, or at least you need neighbors who can help you.

I would move to a safer place, if I live alone and face the same safey issue.

Barbie~~

Jainie,
  Be careful now!  The type of bar where you were at has those stalking types, it comes with the territory. 
  Joelene

Quote from: JenJen2011 on October 31, 2011, 07:32:20 PM
What does him being black have anything to do with it?

If no one says anything then it's natural to assume that the perpetrator is white, which gives a wrong visual image, and if I was telling the story that would drive me crazy. >.< For example, there's an overweight Mexican girl at my school who's fricken gorgeous despite that. I've described her before without mentioning that she's Mexican, but I would think most people would try to see her visually as white otherwise.

Anywayz what a creep, maybe you should be prepared to defend yourself.

@~RoadToTrista~ I was thinking of getting mase. lol.

Quote from: jainie marlena on October 31, 2011, 11:08:17 PM
I was thinking of getting mase. lol.

   I think you should buy one of those mini stun guns or tazer and zap anyone who is threatening you. *ZZZAP*   

Didn't someone in an airport die from tasering? >.<

@Rukia87xo you are toooooo funny. Thanks for making me feel better.