Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on November 11, 2011, 06:11:41 PM
But I am 5'5" and petite..

Quote from: Rukia87xo on November 11, 2011, 06:19:41 PM

  I HATE you...i'm 5'9 and have more of a medium body frame. 

Oh shush.
I'm 5'8.5 right now.
But i'm prolly not done growing yet, so i might get taller.

oh, and i have football-player-shoulders.
woe is me.

Quote from: Zenda on November 11, 2011, 06:37:39 PM
Kia Ora R,

Beauty fades with time[it's shallow only skin deep and in the eye of the beholder]-nothing is permanent-but the peace that comes from have matching parts 'mind & body' will in the long run bring more contentment in old age...[As long as the desire to have a vagina was the overall goal]...

Metta Zenda

Hate to remind you. But being a woman is a lot more than having a vagina.

Quote from: Zenda on November 11, 2011, 06:37:39 PM
Kia Ora R,

Beauty fades with time[it's shallow only skin deep and in the eye of the beholder]-nothing is permanent-but the peace that comes from have matching parts 'mind & body' will in the long run bring more contentment in old age...[As long as the desire to have a vagina was the overall goal]...

Metta Zenda

How is wanting your face, shoulders, hips and chest to look right any different from wanting your crotch to look right? I need ALL of me to match, not just one piece.

And secondly, I'm 27. I don't want to be content in old age, I want to be content NOW. Actually, no I don't want "content" at all; I want AWESOME.

You can call me shallow all day long. Won't make me any less delighted that I turned out pretty.

Quote from: Rukia87xo on November 11, 2011, 06:19:41 PM
  I HATE you...i'm 5'9 and have more of a medium body frame. 

I'm 6'.

I want people to treat me like who I am inside, and I want to feel at one with myself. I would not mind being old and unattractive if I could at least be Lily.

Quote from: Lily on November 11, 2011, 08:53:45 PM
I want people to treat me like who I am inside, and I want to feel at one with myself. I would not mind being old and unattractive if I could at least be Lily.

Different strokes for different folks.

If I were an extremely masculine person with a vagina, it's doubtful that I would even bother trying to present as female. I would just harm the TS image as a whole, for one. Secondly, presenting as female while not possibly being able to pass would depress me more in the end; the social ostricization that would go on would be worse than living a lie to myself. I can handle my own enmity, but I am not the kind of person that can simply "not care" about what other people think about me.

That sounds pretty miserable, as a vagina would not even allow intimacy if I were to just live as male.

... So, I would pick passable with a penis. It's a lot more manageable for my personality - I won't cheat by wanting both

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on November 11, 2011, 07:06:06 PM
Hate to remind you. But being a woman is a lot more than having a vagina.

Kia Ora Mahsa,

And when did I say it was not ?

"Different strokes for different folks !" 

Metta Zenda

Quote from: Zenda on November 11, 2011, 10:15:45 PM
Kia Ora Mahsa,

And when did I say it was not ?

Okay, then we both agree to agree.

Quote from: Sarah7 on November 11, 2011, 07:52:38 PM
How is wanting your face, shoulders, hips and chest to look right any different from wanting your crotch to look right? I need ALL of me to match, not just one piece.

And secondly, I'm 27. I don't want to be content in old age, I want to be content NOW. Actually, no I don't want "content" at all; I want AWESOME.

You can call me shallow all day long. Won't make me any less delighted that I turned out pretty.

I'm 6'.

Kia Ora Sarah,

Now lets not go getting ones underwear in a twist...I'm not calling anybody 'shallow', I'm just stating a "fact"  "Beauty is only skin deep " =Shallow....

Metta Zenda

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on November 11, 2011, 10:19:12 PM
Okay, then we both agree to agree.

Kia Ora Mahsa,

So are you saying you 'agree' with me ? 

Metta Zenda

Quote from: Zenda on November 11, 2011, 10:30:37 PM
Kia Ora Mahsa,

So are you saying you 'agree' with me ? 

Metta Zenda

Meh. It could go either way.

I've seen transsexuals who are post-op and still look male facially.  That seems truly pointless.  Being gorgeous is the way to go!  Though, if you were gorgeous without a vjay, you couldn't share your gorgeousness in bed with a hot guy

Quote from: Rukia87xo on November 11, 2011, 01:45:20 AM

  Lol ok guys like the question asks: Would you rather be really pretty like perfectly feminine body & face but have a penis or would you rather have a fully functioning vagina but be extremely masculine looking?


  Discuss 

If you insist on using "extremely" then I'll have to go with the former.

Also, I have to insist that in a real world example, the problem with "a" can still be fixed, and the problem with "b" can't.

I would choose pretty. Having a tiny painful temporary hole between my legs really isn't all I thought it would be, and when I look in the mirror I am disgusted by what I see. Of course, I chose SRS rather than FFS so that's a bit of inconsistency isn't it. I wanted the vaj (no idea anymore why*) and didn't want the surgeon peeling my face down. *shudder*

*(But hey it's still better than a dangly thing.)

Quote from: ZeldaHeart on November 12, 2011, 03:37:27 AM
I've seen transsexuals who are post-op and still look male facially.  That seems truly pointless.  Being gorgeous is the way to go!  Though, if you were gorgeous without a vjay, you couldn't share your gorgeousness in bed with a hot guy

agree! To answer TS i would choose the first... Being totally hot but with a penis. Then i would plan for srs and have both

Depends if the word "masculine" can be read as "boyish" since I absolutely love girls with a boyish look and in the case would definitely pick that. However if you mean have a big manface then I.. I.. guess the first.

Quote from: ZeldaHeart on November 12, 2011, 03:37:27 AM
I've seen transsexuals who are post-op and still look male facially.  That seems truly pointless.  Being gorgeous is the way to go!  Though, if you were gorgeous without a vjay, you couldn't share your gorgeousness in bed with a hot guy

   Agreed, it does seem pointless.

 

Quoteyou couldn't share your gorgeousness in bed with a hot guy ]

  Yeah that would suck but at least you look the part! 

Quote from: ZeldaHeart on November 12, 2011, 03:37:27 AM
I've seen transsexuals who are post-op and still look male facially.  That seems truly pointless.  Being gorgeous is the way to go!  Though, if you were gorgeous without a vjay, you couldn't share your gorgeousness in bed with a hot guy

Like some people already mentioned, it's much easier to fix that thing in your pants than it is to fix an extremely masculine face. So IMHO being gorgeous with a penis is much more pointless than being masculine without one. Besides, it's not just about looks, it's also about confidence. That masculine looking person may be a lot happier and confident than the good looking one who is constantly facing rejection when people find out what's in the pants.

Quote from: Joandelynn on November 13, 2011, 05:41:33 AM
Besides, it's not just about looks, it's also about confidence. That masculine looking person may be a lot happier and confident than the good looking one who is constantly facing rejection when people find out what's in the pants.

AMEN !!!!

Love
Catherine

i would chose the feminine body and face. . . . . then use my charms to make the surgeon give me a free vagina 

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