I was a gay guy before transition.. And now? That's a question I've not yet been able to answer..

the problem with men is, they have no staying power.

What's with this sex once crap? I like boys but i wish they'd like me!!! I need some stablity

Quote from: fionabell on October 18, 2011, 01:26:31 AM
the problem with men is, they have no staying power.

What's with this sex once crap? I like boys but i wish they'd like me!!! I need some stablity

Men are like eye primer, they need powder to stick and then some eye brightening cream to keep them there.

Apart from a period when I questioned my sexuality, and then realised the problem was actually gender, I had always regarded myself as a heterosexual male.  Now having straightened    things out  I realise  I am just a big lezzo!

Karen.

Quote from: fionabell on October 18, 2011, 01:26:31 AM
the problem with men is, they have no staying power.

What's with this sex once crap? I like boys but i wish they'd like me!!! I need some stablity

Ive been with the same guy since last March.

I dont really think I can say "before since I knew I where trans before I knew about my sexual orientation"

I call myself Bisexual, I guess I mainly find men attractive but I also find women attractive somethimes and also been in love with female people,
I guess my sexualety is pretty fluent I dont really care so much whatever or not I find someone attractive and what it will make me.
only thing have been I feel attracted diffently to women than to men, and it have leaved me in wonders if I am gay 100% of times,
one if for sure then its that I aint straight.

Quote from: fionabell on October 18, 2011, 01:26:31 AM
the problem with men is, they have no staying power.

What's with this sex once crap? I like boys but i wish they'd like me!!! I need some stablity

I kinda wonder how to be so,
I cant make bondings to people even if I want to..

I grew up liking other girls, but now I'm technically pansexual. I still prefer girls emotionally though and can only see myself in a long-term relationship with another girl, cis or trans.  Some boys are really hot, I admit ...but I'm concerned I'd only want them for sex. It would take a truly exceptionally romantic guy to 'open my eyes'  and make me re-access things ...Because, I really do feel that the girlxgirl bond is infinitely stronger and more intimate. *shrugs*

A lot of people are bi/pan/poly

I'd say bisexual but leaning more towards men. I don't think I can imagine having a really serious relationship with another woman, but on the other hand I've never had the opportunity to try. I definitely am not ruling out any possibilities. Also I haven't gone on HRT or anything yet, so that might make some changes. Not too sure yet.

Quote from: Fighter Sadie on October 19, 2011, 07:23:27 AM
I'd say bisexual but leaning more towards men. I don't think I can imagine having a really serious relationship with another woman, but on the other hand I've never had the opportunity to try. I definitely am not ruling out any possibilities. Also I haven't gone on HRT or anything yet, so that might make some changes. Not too sure yet.

I thought I was a straight girl.. then I started HRT and now I have no idea.. 

Pre-transition, I was into women exclusively. After transition, I lived as a lesbian for a while and then just before my surgery I came out as bi. Now I'm about 70% straight/30% lez, so you could say my orientation has switched partway. But I'm not straight per se so I can't really answer the poll.

You would think a female-female relationship would be more intimate than a het one but that's not always the case. Lesbian Bed Death can leave a gal feeling left out in the cold.

Pre-transition, I identified as a lesbian, not because I didn't find men attractive (I did) but because men (obviously) treated me like a woman and I hated that. If I was with a woman instead of a man, then the whole "gender roles" thing didn't get in the way as much.

Now that I'm transitioning, I identify as pansexual but am much more attracted to men (cis or trans, doesn't matter to me) than to women. I think part of my lessened attraction to women is from resenting my still-somewhat-female body, the other part of it could be hormonal but I don't know. So I'm basically 90% gay and 10% whatever. 

Attracted to women before transition. Even more attracted to them now.

Some of that may have to do with a life long tendency to be attracted to unavailable straight women.
They still may be unavailable, but it's fun to flirt with them.

it's a difficult one for me to answer because I mostly like guys (which to me is gay but others around me see me as a straight girl as I have not began transitioning yet) but occasionally I like girls too. see I don't consider that bi as the term bisexual generally reffers to the attraction to cis females and cis males.

yes I am attracted to people from all walks of life whether they are cis, bigendered, transgendered, hamephradite or any other gender. all that really matters to me is personality.

this is called pansexual.

it just so happens most the people I am attracted to are male (cis or otherwise) which I guess makes me mostly gay, but because of my occasional female crushes I am what is known as pansexual.

I was going to put that I liked beasts just to be a noodge, but I decided to be truthful and go with #3. 

Hey jakey, "intersex" is really a better word than "hermaphrodite."

I had to learn a bunch of new words when I came out, so I'm not dogging you.

Quote from: Felix on November 10, 2011, 06:44:55 PM
Hey jakey, "intersex" is really a better word than "hermaphrodite."

I had to learn a bunch of new words when I came out, so I'm not dogging you.

eep sorry I really didn't know I hope I didn't offend anyone that was not my intentions -__-

I haven't so much medically transitioned in the traditional sense, but before I socially transitioned I considered myself a dyke. Now I still identify in part as a dyke, but I've accepted I am attracted to men, women and non-binary people. I identify as queer. Gay/straight doesn't really work out for me as a kinda genderfluid guy dating a genderqueer dyke. Some times we're straight-but-doing-it-wrong, other days we're dykes, others we're gay boys, but always queer.

I basically only like other trans but it didn't register my vote.    OPPS IT DID 

Oh before i got rid of testosterone i liked girls but that wasn't the real me anyway. I was under the influence of my testes after puberty.

I am an almost 14 yr post op virgin who has been involved in other things than sex. i have grown and matured very much.

These days i just think about a platonic soulmate either a trans man or trans womyn to share life at my farm