ive had a few unhealthy crushes lately i currently have a crush on my teacher she is really really pretty, shes smart, educated, funny, its really annoying because its never ever gonna happen.

she has red hair, dyed, its cool. i used to think its weird but its pretty, i like it. shes really cool and we like a lot of the same things.

Awww... I've had crushes on teachers before. It sucks when you can't have what you want.

It happens. Whys it unhealthy?
I never had an attractive teacher. All mine were super frumpy.

I think it is pretty normal to have crushes on teachers. I had a few when I was younger. Don't let it get ya down. I don't think you can really classify anything that you feel as unhealthy if it is non-destructive.

^ Same here. I had a huuuge thing for my 7th and 8th grade English teacher, who was this 6ft 5 Star Wars fanatic. As long as it doesn't turn into a full-blown obsesion, I don't think its a problem.

awwwww. I don't think crushes on a teacher are unhealthy. A relationship might be tho, depending, but crushes alone are pretty harmless. I had a thing for my old Spanish TA -- dude was hilarious in this bitchy, snarky way and wore tight shirts.

I'm taking spanish next quarter and I'm specifically signing up for his section. If I don't get in I'll attend his section anyway, it's allowed. /no shame

Nothing wrong with that.  I used to go salsa dancing with my really hot philosophy TA.  He was a damn good dancer.

I agree with the others.  Crushing on a teacher is fairly common and having fantasies aren't (usually) unhealthy unless they start to consume your life.

I also had a crush on a couple of my teachers.  One I even flirted with nearly every class.  Pretty sure he knew I liked him, but he was married and presumably straight.  But I had fun teasing him and getting the same in return.  This was in college, though. 

ok maybe its not a unhealthy crush but it really is annoying also since im home schooled we are alone 2 times a week for hours which can make me kinda uncomfortable. im just kinda happy for the first time that i dont have a dick because that would be super duper awkward.

ahh like others have said, its not unhealthy, its nothin to really worry about. i had a similar situation a couple years ago too, kinda similar to cornhobbles xD
had an amazingggg Spanish teacher; only 2 yrs of language were required for my high school, went the extra mile and signed up for the third year just cause i knew she was teaching that class.   

You just jogged my memory.

I'm dyslexic and I had a special class with a woman, just me and her alone, who was supposed to be teaching me to write and spell. She showed up this one time in a dress that had a...peep hole? I don't know what you would call it, and she had a ton of cleave.

Me: 
Lady: Why do you keep staring?
Me:   silent pause that seemed to last forever
Lady: Can't put your finger on it?
Me: 
Lady: So you know somethings different about me, but you can't figure it out...
Me:  Yeah ...
Lady: I got contacts!!!
Me: Oh!!!   didn't even know she had glasses

I glued my eyes to my workbook for the rest of the session.

i've experienced that before, but i did get over them with time. you'll always find someone new to crush on, it's just how you explore your sexuality. even if it was going to happen, it could always turn out to be a kim kardashian style marriage, so it really is fine to have the occassional crush as what it would be in real life and what it is in your mind are two different things.

Yeah I'm in the middle of one right now.  With a homophobic guy I know.  He's charming and funny but really kind of a jerk.  It's gone on so long without any satisfaction on either side.  I think we are starting to hate each other which is not good at all.

I had a crush on my 2nd grade teacher.....before I knew what that even was.....

In 4th grade I had a crush on a substitute teacher and I went up to talk to her about my math workbook and was playing with the stapler while talking to her cause that's how I flirt, I always play with stuff and I almost stapled my fingers together.

Teachers are normal crushes. We spend a lot of time around them in our young, impressionable years. So yeah. haha. My first actual crush crush was on my grade 6 home room. I thought she was sooooo hot. Lol.

The worst crushes to have, in my opinion, are ones on friends. Especially if your crush is not interested in your "bio-sex", and can't get past it.

One of my best friends and I flirt all the time. She treats me primarily male, but she told me I was her "butchy-chook" when I discussed transition with her  for the first time over 2 years ago.

On the plus, I spose, she seemed excited when we talked about testosterone a few months ago, and asked if I'd grow a dick 

As much as I like her, she prob wouldn't be with me anyway 

Wouldn't know.  All my crushes have been healthy :p

Personally, I very much enjoy getting crushes on people. 

I can relate on the proximity discomfort - my daughter's therapist comes to our house to work on family dynamics sometimes, and she's beautiful and tough and smart and she smells good and omg. I had a crush on her for a few months awhile back. I still think it was a pretty nice way to be uncomfortable.

I get unhealthy crushes and healthy crushes. I LOVE falling all over myself for somebody. I'm a poet of some kind, what do you expect from me?

My last unhealthy crush was bad, real bad, bad bad bad. It was mutual and we knew it, she made me a drunk for two weeks straight and I ended up blocking out her name. I seriously can't remember her name... Bad. I wrote her a love poem that has been called amazing by my two best friends that read it, I even gave it to her in a purge when I decided things were not gonna work. She had just turned 18, and I was in the middle of the big split. I won't post the poem here because that's inappropriate.

TMI? Probably.

I have a mild crush on my science teacher, she's really pretty, always cheerful, and a great teacher. She's also buzzed half of her head, which certainly adds to her good looks (I'm a sucker for women with really short hair).

My crushes were always obsessions. I would try to find out the name of my crush's perfume so that I could buy it and smell like them every day. I would feel euphoria if they accidentally brushed against me in the cafeterie queue in school. A smile, a laugh, the way their hair moved in the wind would be the things that motivated me to appear in school. It was always unrequited and always that bad. Sometimes I wish I could lose the ability to fall in love, because this obsession is so painful.