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Have your "typically gendered" interests changed?

Started by MsDazzler, November 21, 2011, 12:41:10 PM

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MsDazzler

Now, now, I know there are no such as "gendered" interests - after all they are what society have encouraged males and females to adopt. That is why I said "typically gendered" :) and I know there are guys out there with "female" hobbies and vice versa!

With that disclaimer :

Do you find that your interests and hobbies as a male have changed or remained after you have transitioned to being female?

For me, I was a huge geek (largely influenced by living with 3 older brothers growing up) - I love fantasy, comic books, video games, etc. But once I started transitioning, I find myself slowly losing interest in those typically male interests. However, I still love to play video games (Fantasy role playing games, not sports or shoot'em down types).

I ve found myself more and more interseted in typically feminine things, such as shopping, makeovers, reading romance books, flowers, etc...
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jsorter

YES! Before I would watch and play sports but now I cant stand them at all
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Maya Zimmerman

I used to like doing Math, but now, I'm bad at it!!!  No, just kidding.  I still like Math.
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stldrmgrl

I don't find myself necessarily uninterested in previous hobbies and such, but I have adapted new ones to my life which I find much more interesting, that are feminine in nature (based upon society).
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Constance

I used to be interested in hunting and fishing, but not anymore. I think the main reason, however, is just that I'm a little to squeamish.

I still love FPS games, though. Oh, yeah. I like ones and zeros exploding.

A

It's only natural to see a certain degree of change. After all, "male" and "female" activities, whilst heavily exaggerated by society, come from natural, most probably hormonal, tendencies. That, and by getting closer to your true self, you kinda unconsciously want to explore those previously "kinda forbidden" areas, right?

Sounds amazing, somehow.
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pretty

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Forever21Chic


  Yes & no. I still play video games although not as much anymore and i still watch anime! I still luv rafting in the summer time with friends only difference is i get to wear a bikini or a tankini even!   :D


  I really get into romantic comedies now more then before and i'm finally able to express my passion for baking!  :icon_joy:
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GinaDouglas

Football.  And I think it's an important thing we can learn from.  I loved playing football.  In Detroit, we played pick-up games of tackle football with no pads allowed but knee and elbow pads, no helmets.  There were always games on weekends at a dozen or so high school fields.  The people I hung with thought organized football with refs and pads and helmets were for pussies.

I could always watch any football game, and be interested in it.  I winced at big hits and felt exhilarated on big plays.  The teams I liked (Lions, Wolverines, Raiders), I felt like I was in the game.  I played fantasy football, and really liked it.

After a year on hormones, I couldn't care less about fantasy football.  After two years, I found televised games boring.  After three years, I didn't even watch the Super Bowl.  Now, I barely follow the Lions, and don't care about anything else.  And I am sure the Lions-thing is only because they are the only hometown team that has not won a championship in my lifetime, and only won one playoff game.  I'd say I don't care about them as a football team, they are just the ultimate hopeless-underdog.

My theory is that testosterone stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system, and estrogen represses it.  In layman's terms, a man can feel what he observes on the football field, as if he was in the game.  But women do not experience that, and I believe that is the direct result of the effect of hormones on the brain.
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apple pie

Quote from: Maya Zimmerman on November 21, 2011, 01:10:47 PM
I used to like doing Math, but now, I'm bad at it!!!  No, just kidding.  I still like Math.
I don't like it now, but maybe for a long time I confused "being good at it" with "liking it". I'm not sure...
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heatherrose



Once was, I wouldn't give a second thought about crawling under a tractor-trailer
to fiddle with a grease and road grime covered malfunctioning whosey jiggey,
now I would give it a third thought but would still do it if there was a need for it.
I was telling a friend the other day, "I find I much prefer brushing sawdust
out of my hair over cleaning grease out from under my fingernails".
I've had the same can of lanolin hand cleaner for over a year now.
It is a fantastic stain remover in the laundry.... but I digress.
Having left both of my facades behind, I am free to be me and have found other interests,
more artsy, into which I can pour my creative juices. I love thrift store and grocery shopping,
whereas before I couldn't have cared less for it. Now it is all about the clothes, what matches what,
which can be quite a challenge being colorblind and all. Before, if it smelled ok I wore it.
A bad hair day pisses me off, back then, I was shaved bald. I like motor sports, excepting
go fast, turn left, go fast, turn left, repeat 400 times, always have found that very boring.
I have always liked to play soccer and baseball, never cared for watching it on the boob tube.
Some subtle shifts maybe, no major pendulum swings.

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Jen-Jen

Nope!  Still like fast cars, guns and other girly things!
Don't judge a book by its cover! My lifes been like a country song! True love, amazing grace, severe heartbreak, buckles, boots n spurs! I 've been thrown off the bull a couple times, I keep getting up and dusting myself off! Can't give up on my happily ever after!
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Dahlia

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Quote from: Jen-Jen on November 22, 2011, 04:20:16 AM
Nope!  Still like fast cars, guns and other girly things!


Guns??

As far as I'm concerned: still the same interests, fashion, elegance, beauty, flowers, potted plants, home making....
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Jen-Jen

Quote from: Dahlia on November 22, 2011, 04:43:45 AM
Guns??
yup guns! What? They are girly right? I think so. I mean what kind of guy doesn't find a girl with a gun sexy?
Don't judge a book by its cover! My lifes been like a country song! True love, amazing grace, severe heartbreak, buckles, boots n spurs! I 've been thrown off the bull a couple times, I keep getting up and dusting myself off! Can't give up on my happily ever after!
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Lynn

Quote from: apple pie on November 22, 2011, 02:12:58 AM
I don't like it now, but maybe for a long time I confused "being good at it" with "liking it". I'm not sure...
I did the same with computers for a very long time. I've always been good at fixing them and all that stuff, and thought it was something I liked.
Then when I went to college for IT, I realized I was only just good at it, but actually hated it beyond just doing what's needed to keep things going for myself.

But as far as the things go that I actually like, I don't think they have and will change that much. I've always liked "girly" things, and I'm sure I'll discover some new hobbies that I didn't attempt before because it wasn't "manly enough", but as far as losing interests ... I doubt it.
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stldrmgrl

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pretty

Quote from: Jen-Jen on November 22, 2011, 06:02:15 AM
yup guns! What? They are girly right? I think so. I mean what kind of guy doesn't find a girl with a gun sexy?

That doesn't make something girly... unless you're like, a misogynist, I guess.
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lonely girl

Only boyish interest I have is gaming, and I still kept it  ;D I beat guys in streetfighter and tekken
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eli77

I don't really think about it much. I like the things I like... I suppose I'm slightly more on the feminine side of things if we are stereotyping. But I've always been like that. And just cause I like historical romances doesn't mean I can't still like martial arts or rollerblading or international politics. I don't feel like picking a "side" is much fun. I take the same attitude towards interests that I do for clothing - if I like it it's for girls, regardless of what the label says.
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Lily

I just do what I like. I never think "is this something girls would do?," I just do stuff because I enjoy it.

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