The priority shipping is still free. Be careful not to chose the default ground. You should prob order today. I think ground is 6 bucks so you are still saving money. They will also send you free stickers and lube or something.

Damnit, I've only got 11$ in my bank. Aaagh.

I only feel silly when I don't secure my packer right and I can feel my dick moving in weird positions.

I wouldn't know, but I bet it feels as awkward as wearing breast forms for the first time! Just do what your comfortable with and take it slow.

yeah, i never wear tight pants because i feel silly with my packer on, it just feels too big and uncomfortable and it just reminds me that i dont have a penis

I don't remember feeling uncomfortable wearing one.  The only time I'm uncomfortable is when I wear one in boxers or pajama pants around my family.  It just feels..I guess I just feel very self-conscious in that situation.

The suit pants I wore today are slim fit so they are kind of snug.  I think I'd feel sillier without a packer than with one.  I almost always pack when going out, but if I'm just running to the mail box or visiting my grandma, I sometimes skip it.

I think for me it's not so much the packer that makes me feel silly but the harness itself no matter what form it comes in. Yeah, I know there are packers that are now built into underwear or you can build them into your own underwear/rejigging your underwear yourself to accommodate the packer without the harness and other methods of keeping it in place without a harness...but that just feels completely unnatural/silly for me. Part of being who I am as a guy is the sense of freedom I feel to be a guy...not needing any extra material things to add on. It already feels horrible to have a binder, but that much is pretty much necessary. Packing just makes me feel really artificially. Oddly enough, using a medicine spoon as an STP doesn't feel as unnatural to me as walking around with a packer.

The only packer I'd be willing to overcome that "silly/awkward" feeling for is the peacock, lol. Still saving up for that. The fact that it's 3 in one makes me think it will feel a bit less awkward for me. We'll see.

Yes, I bought one but never got over the awkwardness enough to wear it consistently. It's shoved in a drawer somewhere right now. I'm really tiny and I bought the smallest one I could find but it still seemed really big I guess some guys would like that but it was just weird for me. And I felt like it would be noticeable because I wear tighter fitting jeans.

When I first wore one, I kept thinking it was too big and it looks like I have a boner but I'm over it now. I have to wear it now or I'll feel incomplete. I got the xsmall Mr. Limpy and it works for me now because it never looks like I have a boner. I think everyone sitting on my lap all the time squished it down. I don't wear a harness or anything, I just wear a jockstrap.