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Fitting in with teenage boys?

Started by Cody Jensen, November 26, 2011, 09:56:54 PM

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Cody Jensen

Do you think it's weird? I do feel a bit tomboyish, and since I will look like a teenage boy myself before I start T, it makes sense to me that I should feel like I fit in with teenage boys. But yeah, do you think it's weird?  :-\
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Wesley_33

I would think if I did it it would be wierd only cause I'm 33. I think if you're close in age its fine. Plus its kinda like being one when we all start T anyways.
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Cody Jensen

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Cody Jensen

Quote from: ~RoadToTrista~ on November 26, 2011, 09:59:13 PM
What's so weird about it?

Never gave much thought about it actually, I just thought it might be weird because some of us are sort of mentally older than them.
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Sharky

Aren't you a teenage boy?
Teens fitting in with other teens seems perfectly normal to me.
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Cody Jensen

Quote from: Sharky on November 26, 2011, 11:25:35 PM
Aren't you a teenage boy?
Teens fitting in with other teens seems perfectly normal to me.

Actually now that you put it that way, it does :)

Post resolved :)
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Natkat

I dont think its wierd but for myself I must say I in general dosen't fit in so much with tennegers as many others do,
specially not guys.
The reason is I feel I am way to diffrent to them to be conected, I have another past than they have, other experience, and I feel way out and proud where most teeneger guys are pretty steryptypical or in the closet.



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Cody Jensen

Quote from: Natkat on November 27, 2011, 03:21:33 AM
I dont think its wierd but for myself I must say I in general dosen't fit in so much with tennegers as many others do,
specially not guys.
The reason is I feel I am way to diffrent to them to be conected, I have another past than they have, other experience, and I feel way out and proud where most teeneger guys are pretty steryptypical or in the closet.

I get you here. I definitey know what you mean. I'm always terrified of coming out to my friends. They can be quite homophobiac at times. But my best friend especially, I know they aren't real friends if that's what they think, but she has been a sister to me when my own sister wasn't there for me. Letting go of her will be hard.
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Natkat

Quote from: Cody Jensen on November 27, 2011, 03:45:26 AM
I get you here. I definitey know what you mean. I'm always terrified of coming out to my friends. They can be quite homophobiac at times. But my best friend especially, I know they aren't real friends if that's what they think, but she has been a sister to me when my own sister wasn't there for me. Letting go of her will be hard.

I am usunally out to people I hang around but still I often feel all the steryotyping kinda put me down,
even if I am accepted as male I should be this pretty maculine guy which im not..

I do have teen friends who are guys I like,
but I generally dont fit well with people who are scared of anything diffrent.
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Dane

I fit in with teenage boys pretty well. Doesn't really strike me as odd for some reason.  ;)
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Cody Jensen

Quote from: Natkat on November 27, 2011, 07:01:35 AM
I generally dont fit well with people who are scared of anything diffrent.

Thing is, I'm not even comfortable with myself being different.  :-\ I'm working on it, but a lot of times I feel like I belong on the Island of misfit toys.
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Sam-

I'm 20 and feel like I fit in with teenage boys. My friend tells me I'm like a fourteen year old boy, lol. But yeah the two guy friends I talk to the most are sixteen and eighteen. I think it's normal since we're yet to go through the correct puberty, and even when we do we're just starting it so we're pretty much in line with them. Idk I don't really feel weird about it, it's how I'm comfortable and they're cool with it so whatever.
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