If you use an stp packer with a medicine spoon receptacle, how do you keep it from not poking you?
I have a harness I made, a 3.5 Mr. Limpy, and an stp made of latex tubing and a medicine spoon. Not only does the packer not pack well (gives me a boner look), but the medicine spoon part is always moving around and poking me in places I don't want to be poked. I've tried a nipple style stp (because it's softer), but it doesn't work well for me. I've been wearing briefs, but that doesn't seem to help..
Does anyone have any suggestions?