Kia Ora,
When it comes to what trans-people think of each other in the cyber world or support group setting, is irrelevant,
it's what happens when living in the real cis world that counts...
I was a pre-op blender[for 4 years] and now I'm a post-op blender[for the past 6 years]- I use the term blender in the sense cis
society accepted my affirmed gender identity and treated me as such and that for me was the only thing that counts...
Who really gives a toss what other trans-people [pre, non, or post -op] think...One is only creating more problems for themselves if they do.
Like others here, I have the luxury of participating in this cyber world forum wearing my trans-cap as and when I please and once off the computer the cap comes off and I slot back into the cis [real] world as a female [be it a neo-cis female]...
Metta Zenda
