Hey there. I have a question for all the ftm people here about who you would date. Though I loosely identify as ftm, I'm not really doing anything to change. I just try to be myself, labels be damned, and most people see me as a strange girl. Whatever. I do think trans/androgynous people are mad hot though, and I'm interested in dating them (not exclusively). Them....you, heh. You all. And I'm curious about how I can attract you all.

Well, so far this has been an awkward post.  😛 Hopefully you get the gist. Assuming I am outwardly female, presenting as female/androgynous, what are my chances with ftm people?

I mean, each and every one of us are different.
It really just depends what you are looking for.
I can't give you a guide on how to attract each and every one of us though, sorry to say.

Ah, not to sound like a jerk, but there isn't a rule about how to attract guys like us. I mean, in the end we are just people. We're like everyone else as far as our likes and dislikes go. Does it really matter if the person you are dating is trans or cis? If you like the person and they like you, and your personalities mesh, that is pretty much all that matters.

Quote from: Ayden on December 07, 2011, 12:01:12 PM
Ah, not to sound like a jerk, but there isn't a rule about how to attract guys like us. I mean, in the end we are just people. We're like everyone else as far as our likes and dislikes go. Does it really matter if the person you are dating is trans or cis? If you like the person and they like you, and your personalities mesh, that is pretty much all that matters.

Couldn't have said it better.

There's really nothing special you have to do to date a transperson, respect them as you would any other of your partners and make sure there's some sort of mutual connection/attraction.
Simple as that.  🙂