I am sorry for you ladies who wear wigs - I really empathize because I wore wigs for years and I hated it.... but I guess this question applies to the grrls here who have real hair.
I finally grew my hair to shoulder length - and it is all wild and curly, lol. It is not poker straight like most Asian hair tend to be. It was long enough to put it in a French Braid and I wore it to work. People commented on it - that I looked good with my hair pulled back, let it be in a French twist, updo with a clip, a ponytail, or a French Braid, because of my features.
IT surprised me because I always felt I needed to cover up my strong jawline.. thus be more passable.
Do you wear your hair up or pulled back - or down all the time to cover your "masculine" features"?