Quote from: FullMoon19 on December 14, 2011, 08:25:11 PM
this is such a coincidence. i was reading a kate bornstein book earlier today. it's called "my gender workbook." the section i was reading was on desires and how those qualities are something we look for in someone else, but then goes into how we could become the thing we desire ourselves and reach a new place of desire provided by ourselves. it's not the traditional thing, but the book is about how one can actually break out of the gender boundaries if they really want to and become something else.

I'm a femme...I have no desire to become a dyke. It's more of an exploratory fetish because I can actually land an open minded dyke girl now. But still ironic, because part of me feels like a gay boy. That's like stuff that happens at the MIX.

Quote from: FullMoon19 on December 14, 2011, 08:25:11 PM
this is such a coincidence. i was reading a kate bornstein book earlier today. it's called "my gender workbook." the section i was reading was on desires and how those qualities are something we look for in someone else, but then goes into how we could become the thing we desire ourselves and reach a new place of desire provided by ourselves. it's not the traditional thing, but the book is about how one can actually break out of the gender boundaries if they really want to and become something else.

Yeah I have read that book. It is funny and sarcastic!

I tend to pass better with my hair up, but I've been getting more comfortable wearing it down lately.

Quote from: MsDazzler on December 14, 2011, 10:24:48 PM
Yeah I have read that book. It is funny and sarcastic!

Okay, some of you wear it back ....

Aside from the classic and typical ponytail, do you ever play with your hair back in different styles, such as the half-back with a clip, French braid, French twists, pigtails....?

Because most pics, if not all, I have seen of transgender women tends to portray them with hair down or if they even have their hair back at all, it tneds to be the boring ponytail, lol

Quote from: MsDazzler on December 17, 2011, 10:55:16 AM
Okay, some of you wear it back ....

Aside from the classic and typical ponytail, do you ever play with your hair back in different styles, such as the half-back with a clip, French braid, French twists, pigtails....?

Because most pics, if not all, I have seen of transgender women tends to portray them with hair down or if they even have their hair back at all, it tneds to be the boring ponytail, lol

Another 6 months and I can do the Kardashian bun.