I'm sure it's been brought up before but how can I make a harness for my packer that actually keeps it in place? I've seen this one that is essentially just one long elastic band that loops around to keep it in place. Has anyone found that one to work? What I did before was stick the packers in a sock with a hole in it and safety pin it to the elastic on my boxers but it always sagged them down in a really annoying way. Another issue i have is that I don't like the packer to be right against my skin because I don't want to get the sock dirty and have to clean it (my parents don't know about my packer).

Also, when i attempt to place my packer I feel that it sticks out too much. I have the smallest Mr. Limpy and I usually leave the shaft resting in between the balls. Would leaning it to the side work better, or is that just unnatural?

So anyways some advice would be cool. My packer is currently sitting neglected in a drawer because of my troubles with wearing it around lol.

(Also, if using elastic is the best way, would a place like dollar tree sell it?)

I don't pack but I can say that most boys I've known keep their cock to one side or the other, not in the middle.

Do some boys keep it in the middle because that's what I do and I like it that way. Or do they all put it to one side?

I put mine straight down most of the time.  It's just how I've done it for years.  Recently though, I've worn more boxers and it tends to go to the right, so I let it lol  Just wear it however it's most comfortable for you.

The harness I use is the homemade elastic band one.  One thicker band around the waist and one smaller that goes between the legs. 

Slytherin-

I don't wear mine to the side either. Then again, I don't mind looking larger though.

I dress to the right, if you feel your bulge is too big, you can try that. Might also help to wear tighter undies or wear it a bit lower.

Adio, is that secure enough for running/jumping and sorts?

I made a harness by cutting up one of my boxerbriefs. The front is usually doubled (two layers of fabric) So I cut around the front and along the line of the waistband. Cut a small hole on the front where I want to shaft coming fromt and a big slit in the back to insert the packer in the harness. I also sewed two elastic bands to the end of the fabric that holds the packer and tied these to the side of the waistband. This keeps the packer snug to my body.

It does require washing, but I don't like wearing the packer directly to my skin.

Ah, okay! So wearing it to a side is normal. I think I'll try that because wearing it in between makes me too self conscious around my family lol. Once I am in college I probably won't care too much.

Now as far as the actual packers harness I like Nathan's idea a lot. Using the elastic for extra support seems like it would work really well! Problem is I don't have any old boxer briefs. I guess I'll wait until I need new ones then experiment with that idea, because that seems like the best for not having it touch my skin. Either that or I'll try some crazy hybrid of using the elastic like with the one in that video. I think it'd be cool if I could modify all of my boxer briefs so that I wouldn't have to worry so much about lack of hygiene from only having one harness. My packer actually came with this card advertising this specially made ftm underwear, except it was much too expensive. Perhaps I'll try doing that myself.

Anyways thanks for the help! As soon as I have time I'll put one of these ideas to the test.

cisguy here, i usually keep mine in the middle straight down and i tend to wear boxer briefs or occasionally boxers. sometimes i'll put it off to the side, this kinda helps with unwanted erections as it sorta goes down a pant leg instead of bulging out in the front.

i've heard alot of guys say they keep it off to a side, i usually just throw my underwear on without thinking and it hangs centered naturally though if i expect to have an erection it's a lot more comfortable to pick a side for that thing to head towards 

Quote from: Finn642 on December 25, 2011, 12:51:34 AM
cisguy here, i usually keep mine in the middle straight down and i tend to wear boxer briefs or occasionally boxers. sometimes i'll put it off to the side, this kinda helps with unwanted erections as it sorta goes down a pant leg instead of bulging out in the front.

i've heard alot of guys say they keep it off to a side, i usually just throw my underwear on without thinking and it hangs centered naturally though if i expect to have an erection it's a lot more comfortable to pick a side for that thing to head towards 

That is interesting and thank you for your info.

If you go to a tailer to have him measure you a suit, there is a good chance he will ask you which side you 'dress' (hang) so he will give that side a bit of extra space.

Henry, if you want I can make a picture of my harness for clarification. You do need more than one, but on the other hand, the boxers that go óver the harness stay clean(-ish) so you could wear it more than one day.

Finn642- Thank you for the affirmation on that! Now I know a bit more about how that works, cool.

Nathan- A picture would be awesome, if you would do that. I was fiddling around with a pair of boxer briefs last night to see how it would work and had a bit of trouble.

Haha alright, we'll have some friends over for Christmas in a bit but if I don't forget I'll shoot a picture for you tomorrow ^^

When I pack, I wear briefs or boxer briefs and put the packer in between the two layers of fabric in the front. If I'm leaving the house I'll either safety pin the "pouch" closed or safety pin the packer to the underwear (it's crocheted ). As for "dressing", the shaft of mine is long enough that it sits in the middle without sticking out forward too much. I don't think there's anything wrong with leaning it to one side if that's what your preference is.

my packer rests nicely in the center on the balls and occasionally to the left but if i had a little mr. limpy i would go left all the time.

just to make another possible suggestion, I just discovered that, for me at least, using medicine tape and just taping it to me really helps.  I can tape it to me so it doesn't fall, move around, and I can tape the "bulge" down so it looks smaller.

Man, I have the same issue [sagging ect.] kind of makes you feel like if you spread your legs to far it'll just fall and be loose in ones briefs... I'm also not the biggest fan of briefs.

The only way I've found to keep mine in place was pretty extreme, but very necessary because I was wearing it to jiu jitsu [its like wrestling] which involves twisting and moving in any way imaginable.  I basically arranged the packer in a pair of briefs and then wore super tight like baseball jock strap type shorts overtop.  It keeps in in place really quite well, but I find the tightness of it unbearable for all day/everyday use.  Then again anything looser and the packer moves and then that is even more unbearable... so I'm pretty sure that there isn't much of a good way to do it.   

I wear mine straight. If it goes to one side it feels funny when I sit because the tip goes in one leg of my jeans or the other. Ouch.