I think this person deserves your honesty, and that you should have the courage and respect for her to give it to her.

you jsut have to be blunt with your friend - you tell her you do not want to talk about i tall the time but you still do want to hear about other things that are going on in her life because you are her friend

Kia Ora Annah,

Thanks for clarification...However as I stated in my first post "You reap what you sow! And you are no doubt, dealing with a person in a fragile emotional state...Tread carefully...Choose your words wisely...Remember you were once like her....

Metta Zenda

Off-topic:

Annah, I really hope you did well on your exam. Hugs, Kim

Quote from: fionabell on December 25, 2011, 05:21:06 PM
She can always make an account here to learn stuff.

the easiest advice would be to direct her to some other place where she talk about her 'trans' issues to her hearts content. for example if you directed her here she would be welcomed, she can make many other friends to help and talk too.

Unless Annah's FB is used as a TS support page (clearly it's not), then I don't see why she has to be okay with others talking about their transition 24/7. Obviously, there are people she prefer's not to know at this present moment and this friend could possibly out her. So, I totally understand where she's coming from.

Unfortunately, you can't control what each of us post on our own FB's so either unfriend her or tell her how you feel. Otherwise, you'll just have to deal with it. If she wants guidance from you, tell her you'll be more than happy to help her via e-mail or refer her to a TS support site like Susan's, tsroadmap.com, etc.

Seriously? we are having a debate here about how to handle a friend who wants to talk about transgender issues?