I know I'm pushing a lot under my own personal rug, but I do know a little of my more "feminine" behaviour has been peeking out of the seams lately.
I wonder if this will have any affect on others directly on how I fit into "the spectrum." I mean, obviously; but will it have implications, for example, professionally? I know women who are aggressive and so on have their own battles to fight, and they do so very well, but I wonder about more feminine or androgynous men.
How does this affect dating? I am out of that scene? But I know the typical hope is someone that "fits". This is ridiculous, and I know that, and you know that, and I know that you know . . . etc.
I wonder how this behaviour will affect things. I did an experiment a long time ago, where I converted to a "Basic Business Man" at work in appearance and things went well. Until I got myself destroyed that is by years of bullying and trying to work up a corporate ladder.
But I can't remember what came first . . .
Obviously if someone transitions, MTF or FTM, on the job and in real life, there is something that's going to be noticed; what I'm interested in is the gray space between the genders.
Any thoughts?
beatrix
ps, I did read "Does gender behavior (work) influence one's willingness to adopt new technology" and that kind of lead me directly into this . . .