As an absurdist, I would say that a "gaggle" (as in geese) sounds right to me. I think geese are funny and cute and goofy, all things you could use to describe us. Or, since I find that transgendered people are actually really hard to stereotype, a "clowder" (group of cats) would work, since cats are independent and generally don't care what people think.
And if all that sounds very serious, I wrote all of that singing "soft kitty" from The Big Bang Theory, lol.