Hi.
I dought very much that you are ugly or close to that,
wether male , female or a mix it makes little difference , tho i would say more of us women feel we are not beautiefull , & many of the women from a womans forum im on will say much the same . it comes down to lack of....selfconfidence selfworth. & being confident in ones self , it makes a difference in how we see our selfs, the age group is from 17 tho 70's , & of cause theres many reasons as to why.
Do we compare our selfs with others we percive as being more beautiefull than our selfs i belive so. then thats part of the issue.s
Do we accept who we are, when you answer that youll see what i mean we all come in different shapes & sizes we all look different its comes down to being able to accept who we are , .
There is a inner beauty that we often miss, why we dont see it yet others see a lot more ,
From age 10 i did not like how i looked 54 years on im not a lot different in fact just being around other woman iv felt so ashamed of who i am & how i look or dont depending on how you see me..
Yes i dress nicely my clothes are lovely yet my facial features are so masculine looking yet im a woman. so how do you think i feel. different out of place not part of our womens groups , & think what the hell am i doing or trying to .... you know it gets at you.
My training where iv been & what i have done is what has helped myself be strong , the hardships iv been through have worked for myself in such a way that says ,
Im one strong woman who can stand in front of many people talk to large groups of people & be a woman in my own right. my looks take a back seat because i have an inner beauty that over comes my facial looks, I have an acceptance that does not include my looks ,
Ugly no,, beauty is there to be seen, its how you see that beauty & what you get from it,
Allow your inner beauty to come forth & youll see a big difference I cant do it for you only .....you ....can,
...noeleena...
