I hate cisgender people,

they're always annoying me.

either they are ignorant, dont understand a s**
or they are cruel or prejugding.

there exuse is always that they dont know better,
they want to be educated but they also want it to be okay to be ignorant cause they dont know.

I cant live with it, of corse theres also sweet, understandings cisgender people, but mostly they drive me nuts..

I dont like to feel responsible for everyones ignorance.

am I the only one?

I don't hate cisgender people.
They're the only people I know.
Everyone is ignorant about something.
Everyone can be cruel and prejudge.
You aren't born with knowledge about transgender issues. It's not inherently wrong to not know a thing about trans issues.
You're not responsible for everyone's ignorance.

I don't so much hate them as much as I envy them.  I wish I could be born a biological male but if not hell I wish I was perfectly fine being a biological female.  It would save me a lot of trouble in the long run but aside from that it makes me angry that the people who are perfectly okay with their bodies cast stones upon others who are trans and anyone cisgender for that matter, who is different from them.  I understand some who may be more ignorant because it's not a daily part of their realities to go what we have to go through but it starts to get annoying when a cisgendered person knows someone who is trans and they treat him/her as if they were a computer asking them anything and everything WITHOUT doing their own research by themselves.  If anyone really wants to be knowlegable about transgenders and trans issues then they should take the first step in doing so with more research on their own.

Quote from: Malachite on January 10, 2012, 08:30:11 PM
but aside from that it makes me angry that the people who are perfectly okay with their bodies cast stones upon others who are trans and anyone cisgender for that matter, who is different from them.  I understand some who may be more ignorant because it's not a daily part of their realities to go what we have to go through but it starts to get annoying when a cisgendered person knows a transman and they treat him/her as if they were a computer asking them anything and everything WITHOUT doing their own research by themselves.  If anyone really wants to be knowlegable about transgenders and trans issues then they should take the first step in doing so with more research on their own.

yeah its pretty much how I feel,
I really wish people would go reseash on some of the topics themself, once in a while.

Quote from: Sharky on January 10, 2012, 06:11:19 PMI don't hate cisgender people.

Thanks Sharky!

Quote from: Sharky on January 10, 2012, 06:11:19 PMEveryone is ignorant about something.
Everyone can be cruel and prejudge.

Yep, there's insensitive, ignorant people in every group. 

You saying you hate cisgendered people is just as ignorant as them saying they hate trans people O_O

Everyone is different, man.

Love.

there are few cis-gender peoples I like, but even in those there are people where the thing I hate most about them is there cis-gender and not trans.

I just dont have the same trust for cis-genders since most of them dont have the same understandings of me.

Quote from: Natkat on January 10, 2012, 09:56:33 PMI hate most about <cisgendered people> is there cis-gender and not trans.

I just dont have the same trust for cis-genders since most of them dont have the same understandings of me.

I don't hate or mistrust you for being trans.  Please don't hate or mistrust me for being cis.

Quote from: rosetyler on January 10, 2012, 10:01:52 PM
I don't hate or mistrust you for being trans.  Please don't hate or mistrust me for being cis.

I am sorry,
after experience I am about to lose that trust to cis-people.
I only have few of them I trust, because only few got knowlegde enough to be able to talk to normally, the rest will just hurt you, or put you down.

 i agree with everything you said besides hating cis people.

Quote from: Sharky on January 10, 2012, 06:11:19 PM
I don't hate cisgender people.
They're the only people I know.
Everyone is ignorant about something.
Everyone can be cruel and prejudge.
You aren't born with knowledge about transgender issues. It's not inherently wrong to not know a thing about trans issues.
You're not responsible for everyone's ignorance.

This so much.  There are trans people out there who are just as ignorant to trans issues as cis people.  I think everyone is ignorant in the beginning of things.  No need to hate them all because they aren't all the same.

Quote from: Andy8715 on January 11, 2012, 12:03:43 AM
This so much.  There are trans people out there who are just as ignorant to trans issues as cis people.  I think everyone is ignorant in the beginning of things.  No need to hate them all because they aren't all the same.

I didnt hate all of them, but most of them, I just can't trust them fully,
Im afraid they will violate me, or send me back where i belong" (put me to hospitals or just try "cure me by talking me out of it")
or just turn there back on me when I least expect it.
I know its stupid.

its makes problems cause I cant even be true to the people i'm close to, I always have to hold myself back, to protect myself, and be awere of the time when they will rejejct me. if they where trans they would understand, but they arnt, so they can easly make something really messy or stupid who will hurt me badly without even thinking about it.

Another trans person can also make a situation messy - it's human to make error and we all want to be surrounded by understanding people who not only tolerate but love us.

I've found most of my support from cis-gendered folk.

It's all about patience in finding those people. They are out there but it takes time- it's a trial and error type thing unfortunately.

yeah it makes sense..

I guess I will correct my mistake, I dont hate all cis-genders, I am just very scared of some of them because they dont understand, and I hate to have those fellings for people around me.

Quote from: anibioman on January 10, 2012, 11:16:56 PM
i agree with everything you said besides hating cis people.

this

I think you probably posted in anger. I sometimes feel like I hate everybody. Life can get intense, and when it looks like a certain category of human is causing you more problems than others, it can be easy to generalize.

I hate tribals thinking that they diserve OUR resources. Welcome to the hate train buddy.

I also don't care for commies

Quote from: xXRebeccaXx on January 13, 2012, 10:52:58 PM
I hate tribals thinking that they diserve OUR resources. Welcome to the hate train buddy.

trolololololol.

The word "commie" always makes me giggle.