Quote from: Bane on January 17, 2012, 12:34:12 AM
Absolutely, I want to get as far away from that stigma as I can. But how does that wish in any way affect my actual condition?
Because I think it would be more worthwhile to turn the stigma around and show the world that transgenders are not freaks rather than hiding behind another condition, which in no way shape or form, classifies your condition.
If you don't have sexual reproduction ambiguity or "abnormal" sex chromosome pattern then you aren't intersex.
I don't know...call it tough love or whatever, but I find it in poor taste to try to get society to accept you as intersex when you are not.
I am intersex. Transsexualism is a freakin walk in the park compared to the physical struggles I went through growing up (and being transsexual is hard too...i changed genders...i know the hell but its miniscule compared to the physical conditions I suffered from being intersex). I have lost count the many times I was rushed to the hospital because my hormones went out of whack every other year, developing co morbids that were extremely painful, having breasts in junior high school (not the man boobs....real breasts), not dating in high school for fear of sexual discovery.
When a transgender can say "oh im intersex" without even really knowing the hell some of us intersex people went through (because they don't like the word transsexual) is insulting; not to mention the attempt to romanticize the intersex condition.