just saw the end of a french/german doc (on an art doc channel) about TS:
A girl said to her FtM friend, after the op: "now you can finally live!" The answer: "no, now I can finally die. Because my gravestone will say I was a man."
The importance of the traces we leave behind....

  just had to tell you guys. If this is the wrong bb section, please move the post.

greetz
Alex

How thought provoking is that. In many ways it is what we leave behind that matters most.

Shelley

Very true,

I mentioned this before, and I wish I knew who wrote it, but it goes like this...

On a gravestone you see two dates, born on... and died on..., separated by a dash.  It's the dash that's the most imortant part.

Chat later,

Steph