I really don't want to offend anyone with this, but I had no idea where to ask this question and to whom.

I am a cis woman, and I identify as bi-sexual. But recently I have been having day dreams about being in a relationship with a trans woman and it makes me really happy, I am also really sexually attracted to trans women. I have no idea how to go about any of this though.

I am not embarrassed by these feelings one bit, I just don't know how I can find a trans woman lesbian to have a date with, I have no idea where to start. I have only had 2 previous relationships one with a cis woman and one with a cis man. 

What can I do to find this person of my dreams where do I start? Also I did try looking for dating sites but to no avail.

There are sites like transgenderdate.com but... yeah. There are definitely nice people but they're not usually friendly places and are completely dominated by disrespectful cis men. My experience, anyway.

Your best bet is probably local GLBTish places. Bars, gatherings...

Can I send you my number?  I'm just kidding.  If your in or near a big city there are clubs and bars that cater to cross dressers drag queens etc.  I don't know how many trans women hang out in those places.  It's a long shot but you never know where you will find mrs right.

Thank you, I didn't want anyone to think I was a freaky ->-bleeped-<-. All of this started with a good friend of mine, she identifies as straight so I know nothing will ever happen with her and I also don't want to put any more pressure on her because she is still transitioning. She has this amazing quality about her that I haven't seen in any other person.

I really hope I can find someone like her, I hate when you fall for someone you just have no chance with, I'll always be her friend always love her. But it also really hurts because I pine for her, it's not her fault at all, I've just never fallen for anyone this hard before.

Thanks for listening to me.

Quote from: Nayhdia on January 26, 2012, 03:07:38 PM
I really don't want to offend anyone with this, but I had no idea where to ask this question and to whom.

I am a cis woman, and I identify as bi-sexual. But recently I have been having day dreams about being in a relationship with a trans woman and it makes me really happy, I am also really sexually attracted to trans women. I have no idea how to go about any of this though.

I am not embarrassed by these feelings one bit, I just don't know how I can find a trans woman lesbian to have a date with, I have no idea where to start. I have only had 2 previous relationships one with a cis woman and one with a cis man. 

What can I do to find this person of my dreams where do I start? Also I did try looking for dating sites but to no avail.

well, there are a lot of trans lesbians out there. I think (no facts but just something I see) there are more trans lesbians than trans straights....so you may run into one.

I would shy away from transgender dating sites. When I first transitioned, I signed up on every one. I wish to God I didn't....it's pretty much filled with hook ups and men wanting a Blow....well.....you know.

Also, try okcupid. It's a decent site....its where i post my profile...and on the bottom of the profile i do state I am intersex and transgender.

Good luck.