" there's no point in his coddling, or giving money to, a self-centered, envious, unpleasant, ignorant and spiteful little wretch who is so wrapped up in her morbid and preposterous delusions that, at 19 years of age, she has not a thought in the world for finishing her education"
Wow, just wow my jaw dropped. That is a perfect example of the privilege that cis people can't even see yet exert over everyone else. I might never fully know how trans people feel, or the pain they go through but I can empathize completely. This is what I meant; how do you go through life without empathy, without understanding? Just because you aren't living in others shoes shouldn't mean you can't understand them.
That THING has probably not had a day of hard ship in their life, so they have no understanding of it and don't even want to try.