I find there is a lot of projection going on when it comes to addictions and compulsions also. Someone sees something and thinks "I wouldn't enjoy that activity so it must be a compulsion." Or they have been unable to control their consumption of a particular substance and assume that no one else can either and see a substance itself as being addictive that may not be, at least not for everyone. Of course, some substances are physically addictive, like heroin. Others are consumed in moderation by some people. But in the mind of a person who was unable to control their use of something, they might see someone else using it in moderation and immediately assume that person is addicted.

Quote from: annette on February 04, 2012, 05:42:37 AM
Why should that be obvious?
I mean, she has very good looks, had srs, a very feminine voice,so why should those men knew about her.

It's a possibility she puts herself in danger now, but men has to ask theirselves why they should be angry, after all, no man was forced to have sex with her.

Maybe there's something wrong with my eyes but in the first picture I see a fairly masculine face under a most obvious wig, broad shoulders, an almost barrel chest with boobs, no waist, narrow hips and too thin thighs and legs...and I bet most men know something about facial and fysical anatomy.

Quote from: Shantel on February 04, 2012, 10:20:41 AM
Being a MtF transsexual and having sex with a man and telling him later, "Oh by the way, I used to be a man" is an extremely dangerous thing to do. There are graveyards all across the globe that can attest to it.

I absolutely agree, what good is coming out of this disclosing this information, Iv had sex with most of my boyfriends in the past who had absolutely no idea I was trans, straight guys who where perfectly satisfied with me as a woman, disclosing information which is not going to do any good but cause grief, sometimes its better ''let sleeping dogs lie'' but of course every sitruation is different, now if a relationship is going to the next level well then maybe disclose, when I got engaged to my fiancé, I tolded him my history, he is now my husband.
I think she is just doing this for attention, she certainly is no role model, sleeping with a 1000 men, being trans has nothing to do with it, any woman with self respect doesn't behave like this, I certainly don't, because Im a lady.

Quote from: pretty pauline on February 06, 2012, 09:32:15 AM
I absolutely agree, what good is coming out of this disclosing this information. When I got engaged to my fiancé, I told him my history, he is now my husband. I'm a lady.

Yes you are a real lady! This is the correct and only safe way for any woman with any common sense to behave in a relationship with a man. If perchance he had demurred, then you would have known up front that the relationship would not be worth pursuing because it would be obvious that he didn't love you or even respect you enough to consider intimacy with you. Obviously it was abundantly clear that he does love you dearly. On the other hand when a woman doesn't disclose to him what he will eventually discover on his own, then she is taking a huge risk. I don't know how many of the annual memorials I have attended for murdered transsexuals over the years, but the numbers get worse and the list grows longer and in many cases those deaths were preventable. It is heartbreaking!