Quote from: tekla on February 09, 2012, 10:53:27 AM
But I would also love (because now we've had a freaking decade plus of all sorts of people dragging all this through the courts again and again) how are any of the people who opposed expanding the right of marriage hurt or injured? If they can't demonstrate any sort of injury - physical? status? financial? property wise? - then on what grounds do they have standing to sue in the first place? The people going forward with the Prop 8 fight are not doing it with the aid or blessing of the State of California. The State of California (with its' ever changing tiny little mind) is currently is in favor of letting gays get married, hence opposing the Prop and so is against going forward - at least until the next election. So if the State is not involved, you can't argue that the government/state has a compelling interest. What you are left with is a bunch of right wing lawyers suing on the behalf of churches and individuals. And other than 'not liking it to the point of irrational fear mongering' I don't see where letting this other class of people get married hurts or injures either of those groups/classes of people in any way.
In the Prop 8 case, I believe the idea was that the proponents (the guys that want to keep prop

are the people who got the thing on the ballot, so, like a legislature that writes laws, they have an implied interest in seeing the law defended. It's not about them being hurt, but rather about representing the will of the people, who voted for Prop 8.
As for the amateurishness of propositions, I'm not sure the legislatures actually do any better. Look at that TN bathroom bill which would have criminalized a mom changing her baby boy's diaper in a single-stall women's room! Or Oklahoma Senate trying to remove protections for gays from hate crime laws, only instead keeping those protections while removing the protections for race and religion. But, yes, I recognize that California's system is relatively unique and very problematic - particularly when a simple majority can strip away rights of people.
That said, yes, I too always find the idea that a heterosexual is harmed by same-sex marriage to be, frankly, nuts. Meanwhile, I personally would like to see an end to the harm that these "one man, one woman" laws have done to me and my wife - ironically we are in a heterosexual marriage, the kind of marriage the right wing nuts are supposedly trying to protect. (any marriage with one intersexed or post-op trans partner is in a marriage considered invalid in some of the US, regardless of birth certificates, DNA, sex organs, etc). It's just plain bad law (for instance, a married couple can be responsible, in many cases, for debts entered into by one partner - but if the marriage isn't recognized somewhere, the common property might not actually be common property in that jurisdiction; So a couple conceivably could simply move to another state to protect their assets in some cases, which is one of the reasons that traditionally marriages were always recognized everywhere if they were legally entered into.
But they will continue to do stuff to try to provoke laws on the idea that they cannot have religious freedom unless gays are discriminated against. As the Prop 8 case showed, it's basically all they have.
Their arguments are basically:
1) Well, if we let gays marry, than kids will be taught about gays marrying. And that would mean more gays, less straight couples, so less kids. And less kids means that eventually, once all the people are converted to gay, no future of society. (echos of Anita Bryant)
2) Gay sex is icky. (I guess they haven't seen what straight couples do in the bedroom and elsewhere, since there is pretty much nothing that gay couples do that straight couples don't)
3) God said so.
4) We scared a bunch of people into voting to keep/remove rights from their neighbors/family/friends/etc. It shouldn't mater that we had to bear false witness to do so (such as the "Protect our Children" garbage in California during Prop 8 - when the law had no direct effect to protect anyone's kids, even if you somehow accepted they needed protection from gays). It's the will of the people.