I am not using the women restroom but they set me up with a privite restroom. they remodeled the yard office a month ago and fix the restroom in it. I told my superviser I was starting to feel uncovertable using it. he said I could use the new one in the yard office.

That's great news jainie. You employers sounds really helpful

yes they are. I am a little shocked as to how helpful some times.

A good boss is worth taking care of, frankly. One who appreciates you makes a load of difference.

That is a good news Jainie Marlena!
I'm glad to hear from you! Just thought how I haven't seen any of your posts lately and was wondering if it is because I am not that much around here or you had better things to do.
hope all is well,

envie

@envie I have not been able to because I use other people's computers. I just got one from a guy at work for $150.00 yesterday. now all I need is a hot spot to get online.lol.

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I talked with HR at work. She want me to feel comfortable. She thinks it would be okay for me to use the women's room instead of that privet bath room.

That is awesome!
It must feel very comforting and encouraging to get that kind of supportive response.

I'm a little shocked that it is turning out this way. I was scared at first about coming out at work but thay seem to support me. I feel a little rushed it scares me some times. Not by them by me.

Understandably so. You braced yourself for resistance but got rather wind in the back instead, so you have to catch up a little bit mentally.
How are the things with your kids and the Ex?

the kids are doing good still with me. my ex lives with me off and on.

Quote from: jainie marlena on March 10, 2012, 05:43:46 PM
the kids are doing good still with me. my ex lives with me off and on.

Thats great. Your a good parent and people see that and there is also God who sees it and well everything is aligning itself in your favor for being sch a caring understanding and non angry person who just gives love. How else could the world treat you.

Its been happening to me too.. Give love receive love 

This sounds really cool, I am really happy for you too, I remember first time I was using the female rest rooms (Toilets), was very nervous I think for obvious reasons. I think actually it was as much helpful to you, but not totally, that they gave you a private room, this to me is not helpful towards integrating you into the female staff in your firm. There should be no discrimination in the work place, and I am glad to read you now can use the female toilets.

Catherine. X

@Kitty_Babe sorry it took me so long to reply. I have had truoble getting online for almost two months. my superviser set me up with the private bathroom but the HR rep. told me I could use the women's restroom. I don't want to make the women at work uncomfertable with me being there. The HR rep said the women would just have to get with the times. i was just happy to hear that I could use it anytime I want. I don't want to push my way in. I want them to see me as one of them first and know that this real not some wierd thing. I want the women to invite me into the group not force my way in to it. At this time they wave at me more and say hi to me. before they never said anything to me. i hope this makes sense. it is a little jumbuled up.