i wana bleach my hair really bad, but its not worth it to me if it will make me look more feminine. does hair color have any relation to looking more masculine or feminie?

  I think it has more to do with how you style it that makes it masculine or feminine.

Hi Michael,
I am a hairstylist and color really has no effect on masculine or feminine.  As Mackenzie said above the style is what makes the biggest difference.  What I suggest to my clients before they come in, bring a picture of a style and color that you like, and that can usually be duplicated.  Also it usually depends on how something makes you feel.  You portray what you feel.

I've bleached my hair in attempt to look more feminine; alas it did not work. Although the natural coloured ash blonde highlights did the trick. 

In short, nope, you should look just as masculine as long as the style is