Hi Axelle,
No problem, it's all good. The simplest question to answer of why Suporn and not Brassard was simply that I live in Hong Kong, and Suporn is only a short 3 hour flight. So yeah, right off the bat I didn't consider US surgeons, but not because of anything skill related. My options were either to have it done for free in Hong Kong through the Hospital Authority, or to go to Thailand. Given my situation and the evaluations I had already received, I chose what I considered to be the best possible option. It certainly wasn't the cheapest, and that has been an enormous sacrifice for me as I'm currently studying and supporting my partner.
As far as why I chose Suporn and not another Thai surgeon, well, Suporn presented what I considered to be the best surgical option, the best results, and the best post-surgical care. As it turns out, I was lucky in that I haven't had any complications, but there was no way of knowing that this would be the case, so I wanted to err on the side of safety.
As for the skin graft issue. As far as I'm aware, he Suporn doesn't perforate the skin. It's possible that he takes extra skin from the crease in the groin. I can certainly say that area has been quite tight, but then, it's hard to tell with swelling etc.
I can appreciate what you're saying about miracles, and I tend to be the same. Perhaps though, this is not so much a 'miracle' as just a surgeon who has found a far more efficient way of using material. Suporn has done a lot of work with intersex people, and apparently his technique was specifically developed with this situation in mind. Again, I'm not one of those people who wants to rubbish other surgeons, but I will say that just because one way is established and 'normal' doesn't mean that it can't be done better. If that were the case, we would have stopped developing cars with the Model T.
I have to reiterate though, Suporn's procedure may not be for everyone. It really hurts; and from what I'm told, it hurts WAY more than others. It also takes longer to recover. I made the choice knowing this, but after weighing it up, felt that the sacrifice of pain and recovery time was worth it if I had a higher probability of getting the result I wanted. As it turns out, I was right.