Welcome Nik,
I hang out in the androgyne section too mostly. I know what you mean by the struggle to fight for one or the other. I look forward to reading more posts in the androgyne section especially. Feel free to start new ones in accordance to the site guidelines posted in rules to live by. Or respond to the tons already posted there, even if older. We have a pretty good crew of androgynes at this site.
Welcome aboard.
Ken (dra)
KK