I am not too happy with the Enda progression so far however, I don't think we should start to point fingers at the Don't Ask Don't Tell repeal.
In my opinion, the repeal of that law was an incredible success. Just because the Lesbians, Gays, and bisexuals had a victory, I do not think we should start to make a positive step in the right direction a bad thing or as an excuse that they did this without thinking about us trans. I think when we start to get upset because a LGB law was passed and a TS wasn't then we start to throw away the baby with the bath water and that really does not benefit anyone.
In all honesty, 10 years ago, there just was not much of a presence of the transgender within the scope of laws and rights. I had been transgender all my life and I did not become aware of strong pro trans legislation or the fight to get those legislations until just five years ago. However, I have known about Lesbian and Gay rights since the 80s.
The reason is, the lesbians and gay movement has been in the public limelight far longer than trans has. Yes, there has been trans in the limelight...but nothing compared to lesbians and gays.
So when don't ask don't tell was repeal, I celebrated in the success of gays, lesbians, and bi and there victory.
We have legislation and proposals introduced. Yes, many governments did drop the ball but it is only natural in the course of our humanity to recognize civil rights and the progressive growth they had done.
Yes, it is right to be angry but at the same time to be careful about dismissing the victories the lesbains, gays, and bis has accomplished in the these years.
The biggest step in the transgender community is to get DSM to drop the mental disorder among trans or make it case specific. The gays and lesbians were once thought to be mentally ill to but the fought to get it taken out. The biggest reason why trans cannot serve in the military is because of the GID and how DSM views it as a mental disorder. They thought the same with Gays and Lesbians in their DSM in the past.
It will take time. It is a progression that may sometimes be slow and painful but it is a progression nevertheless.