Once again, thank you all for taking the time to help me.  It is really nice to get advice on this kind of stuff.  A, I will not be able to try wearing male underpants.  I just cant bring myself to do that.  It makes me feel like I am cross dressing.  But, I thank you for taking the time to let me know what works for you.

I got rid of all my male boxers...never to be seen again!

For me anyway,  Victoria's Secret "lacy Hipster" hiphugger style works the best, I have never had the "fall out" issue yet with those, also I dont care for the bikini cut styles and prefer "low rise" undies and pants since I'm tall and on the thin side.

Its so funny when the new V.S. catalog shows up and Marybeth and I fight over who gets it first   and she always makes a point to tell me when she places an order and if I need anything added...that is so sweet of her

"Medipore and Durapore"

Hi Jamie, where do I find such tapes? I am also looking to hide something as much as possible and be able to go to the restroom hassle-free....

Thanks in Advance! :-)

  a size 4 is loose, i'm jealous....

Being a size 4 is not that great.  It is hard to find clothes that fit.  Especially since I have to pretty much bye everything online since my wife is still too uncomfortable with me shopping in public.

I wear a size 6 and it's hard to find clothes in that size for my long legs and arms....tall and thin has its issues when it comes to shopping.

Yep, I know what you mean.  I am not too tall, 5'10" but I have a 34" in seam, a short torso, and long arms.  I have always been told a have a feminine torso.  My hips and ribs almost touch.

@Jamie,

Hi Jamie, much thanks for your msg: it was very informative and I really appreciated it. Additionally: no, you did not go on for too long, on the contrary, you were detailed and deliberate and I personally really like that! :-)

One question, though: where do I find the tape retail (I am not a fan of ordering stuff online)?

Well, two questions, I guess :-), what are the long term dangers of tucking???

Cheers,
Andi 

I had the same exact problem a few years ago.  I had tried many different styles and brands spending a lot of money.  Then I found the perfect brand/style and have been buying them ever since.  They are the KMart brand PinK in the briefs style.  They fit well and have enough sideways stretch for what I need them to do.

Hopefully this helps.  Good luck.

Thank you for the advise.  It is great to be able to talk to women who have gone through this.