Hi there. Well first of all, I'm a 20 year old guy who's gay, but as of late I've begun to question whether or not I'm cis. I've never felt traumatized by my body or anything. However, I've also said to myself and others Id be comfortable living as a woman minus the periods of course but I'm just not even certain what I am anymore. I like men I know that much and have no feelings for women other than friendship. I thought maybe coming to a transgender place/forum might help me able to discover just what I am as a person. I know there will be people who are all blarg blarg labels why do you need them blarg blarg, but those people can shove it ok. I'm trying to discover myself... again. I've never crossdressed well unless panties count and I did that to please a man so yeah not even sure if that constitutes... Ive said that Id be willing to crossdress just to please a guy so maybe I'm just a manwhore? I don't know but I'm submissive so that does have something to do with that as well. Like I said though highly confused :/ and I guess I should mention taht my thoughts have been as of late when I begin to think about is god don't let me be transgender. Ugh so confused >_<

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Welcome SClarity.  I am pretty new to Susan's Place, and have found it extremely helpful.  The people here are all very nice, and helpful.  Another good trait...they are honest.  You don't have to worry about people sugar coating things for you.  I wish you the best of luck in your journey of discovery.

Hi SClarity, welcome to Susans! There are people of every style and flavour here, go ahead, mingle. See you around, hugs, Devlyn

Hi SClarity and welcome. There's many folks here at various stages. 

Welcome, SClarity.

For my part, the various terms aren't labels but are descriptive vocabulary that I can use to better understand myself which, in turn, allows me to better describe myself to others. But, that's just my take on it.

I think you'll find folks all over the gender spectrum here.

Enjoy your stay!

Hi SClarity,

Welcome to our little family. Over 7083 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member.


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